Relationships

[addict]

Danger Will Robinson! Run away! Run away!

[Jewish Lawyer]

Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

I have great relationships with the few providers I have spent time with. I consider all of them friends, and if circumstances allowed, I would not be afraid of what the future may hold.

I completely agree and this is why I don't fly up to Chicago for a date with Zabrina if she would accede to it - I'm sure I would fall in love with her but we are not culturally a good fit, unfortunately for me!

[Roger.Smith]

You don't pay people you love, and you don't pay your friends. Unless she stops charging you and starts blowing off other dates and income to be with you, it's an illusion/delusion.

[txcwby6]

Did it once....not bad but we drifted apart pretty quickly. No regrets....she was a nice lady but....

[nosweat]

give it up my friend.. I have become friends with a couple of the girls I have seen- I like them; cool chicks; fun to be with; great stories and incredible sex- but that's where it ends. Yeah, I have gone so far as have gotten a lot of freebies and time OTC-but that is where it ends. Chicks here fuck for money; it's a business!! and even if you get as lucky as I did on a couple of occasions- how long before she starts to crave some new dick and you some new pussy..ask her for a freebie and then you will know exactly where you stand- then pay her fee/ fuck her for your life-then next time do someone else. You will be cured..

[Guest070818-1]

Nothing wrong with being intimate. If feelings entensify the experience of holding her in your arms for an hour, go ahead, just know when to let her go and walk away. She is a provider, and she is doing her job very well.

Until then, appreciate the time you spend with her. I don't see why people can get hell bent on relationships, nothing lasts forever. Live, life, and love responsibly!

[pyramider]

BSB, taint is forever.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by pyramider

BSB, taint is forever.

I am so tired of reading these taint posts.

[slowmover]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

I am so tired of reading these taint posts.

Amen!

[pyramider]

That taint right!

[Clit Lover]

Agree with BSB and slowmover!

[OldGrump]

There are many ladies here who would be great friends or neighbors in RL. But as a partner, it would be difficult to transcend the difference between Hobby and RL unless you both want an open relationship. After all, she isn't an exclusive partner now and what are you doing here if you are?

On the other hand, if you met in RL and clicked, it may stand a better chance. They really are human with real feelings & not just a market product.

JMHO

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Nothing wrong with being intimate. If feelings entensify the experience of holding her in your arms for an hour, go ahead, just know when to let her go and walk away. She is a provider, and she is doing her job very well.

Until then, appreciate the time you spend with her. I don't see why people can get hell bent on relationships, nothing lasts forever. Live, life, and love responsibly!

Actually some relationships do last until death. I do love intimacy, yet it is unlikely a real relationship will develop. But I will savor the hour or two I can with a provider who makes that time special.

Originally Posted by OldGrump

There are many ladies here who would be great friends or neighbors in RL. But as a partner, it would be difficult to transcend the difference between Hobby and RL unless you both want an open relationship. After all, she isn't an exclusive partner now and what are you doing here if you are?

On the other hand, if you met in RL and clicked, it may stand a better chance. They really are human with real feelings & not just a market product.

JMHO

Some of us are here to find the best alternative to what we are missing in "RL".(I know people want to separate "hobby" and "real", but to me it is all real life) I think I could have an exclusive partner, though it would be more difficult after I have experienced so many different ladies. A lady who understands that concept would quite likely have the ability make certain I wouldn't stray. Explaining that would be a lengthy study.
Whether we use the term provider, prostitute, escort, whore, or whatever term is chosen, they are all real people. They have the same feelings as any one else, though they may try to suppress or veil those feelings. I have seen men who have had sex with a prostitute and then speak in derogatory terms of her. They just want to cum and then they are through with her, just as they would throw away a rag. I make an effort to let ladies I see know that I care about them, even though what we have is a "business" relationship. Ladies who have allowed me to share my most intimate feelings are precious ladies. If a relationship were to happen, I would let it. But dating providers with the expectation of a relationship is unrealistic. Chances are somewhere between slim and none. I am thankful we have some ladies who can do their job so well, that for a while, I can live my fantasy and be oblivious to the world around me.

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer

I completely agree and this is why I don't fly up to Chicago for a date with Zabrina if she would accede to it - I'm sure I would fall in love with her but we are not culturally a good fit, unfortunately for me!

Break the cultural barriers! You aren't planning to marry her. You might have the time of your life. She is a "forbidden fruit" to you?

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

I have great relationships with the few providers I have spent time with. I consider all of them friends, and if circumstances allowed, I would not be afraid of what the future may hold.

While highly unlikely to find true love with a provider, it is true we should not be afraid of what the future may hold. If love was to manifest itself, it would be a shame to exclude that love because of one's past or because of a job someone had held.