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Novatx · 05-26-2013, 01:22 PM

I don't want to sound mean, but what's up with men (more than one) here pm'ing me to ask me out to a movie or dinner or drinks? It's not cool at all in fact I find it extremely rude. You would think AT LEAST a man will hold these questions until he sees you BCD AT LEAST. I'm not here looking for a boyfriend or for dates. Please refer to what ECCIE is abbreviated for! There's plenty of sites where people can find a date .

TrmaOne · 05-26-2013, 01:30 PM

I applaud you in your observation and willingness to put it out there....I'm sure there are a lot of "people" who think that but fear posting anything d/t retribution on the board. Sometimes the views are skewed immensely. Keep it simple and keep things in perspective is what I say...

Novatx · 05-26-2013, 01:33 PM

Yes you're right but like I've told others, I barely have time for myself and for paid dates much less boyfriends or real world dating !!

Guest061613 · 05-26-2013, 01:38 PM

I don't want to take you out to dinner or a movie or even dancing. I am expensive. I want to fuck you! I want you to be my full course meal.

TrmaOne · 05-26-2013, 01:40 PM

I completely agree with you....all about convenience and anonymity.

Bisoy44 · 05-26-2013, 03:09 PM

Yeah you're right Novatx. I apologize again. What was I thinking this site is for fucking. My bad.

Precious_b · 05-26-2013, 04:02 PM

I'm sure you posted your rates for such an event with the inquiring people

Secret Encounters · 05-26-2013, 04:35 PM

This happens often more than u think .. But people who have never seen u before and asking if they can have drinks or take u out to make it more comfortable before a session is rude ..

In cases like those u may want to offer them a 90 min session .. sit talk, laugh , offer drinks to help them relax more. Just keep ur boundaries and make sure u stay stern and so far u seem to be doing well luv. Kuddos to u for speaking out.

take care Hunny and have fun playing.

xoxo
lexxxi dd's

CrimsonValkyrie · 05-27-2013, 12:16 AM

Wow. I am sure this sounds mean but it would never occur to me to ask one of you ladies out for a drink or anything. I barely have time to hobby. I guess if I knew a provider on here pretty well and we had become friends I might do that but having NEVER met you...no way.

Guest081519 · 05-27-2013, 12:37 AM

We are all here for different reasons. Some of us are extremely lonely. It's okay to seek out companionship, but most likely... you won't find a real sustainable relationship here; trust me (been there and done that).

The ladies will be nice to us, because we are the customer and because they DONT want to seem rude (since they can loose our patronage). Most likely, they already have a relationship. Think about it...

Gents, if you are here to form a relationship with one of our ladies, stop. Simply stop. You are deceiving yourself. Save yourself some money and meet women on a dating site, or go out and meet women in the real world. Otherwise, you are paying for the fantasy and you will continue to be disappointed.

I'll get off my soap box now. Anyways, I apologize for being so blunt, but I love you knuckle-heads. I don't want you all to get hurt.

JJ

Bisoy44 · 05-27-2013, 01:19 AM

Lol, gents I'm not looking for a relationship believe me. I figured since she only does outcalls it would be nice to have a drink or two before we go to the hotel and of course she will be compensated for her time. Relationship! Hardly being friendly maybe.

Guest081519 · 05-27-2013, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Bisoy44

Lol, gents I'm not looking for a relationship believe me. I figured since she only does outcalls it would be nice to have a drink or two before we go to the hotel and of course she will be compensated for her time. Relationship! Hardly being friendly maybe.

I don't think that anyone of us is trying to single you out. I apologize if it seemed that way. I've just seen this happen over and over again. I've been in those shoes myself, and have learned that its good to have boundaries.

JJ

Bisoy44 · 05-27-2013, 01:36 AM

Got it! Thank you Sir

SimplyGwen · 05-27-2013, 02:14 AM

As long as a guy is willing to pay for the time, I'm game. Hourly rates are listed on my website.

Mossman · 05-27-2013, 05:54 AM

If I understand correctly, you will take his money to be his sex toy, but it's rude if he offers you money to socialize? And others agree with you. Too freakin' funny for words. Maybe after this post some time will open up in your busy life so you can have a little for yourself. Enjoy it!