SO.... I like it a little on the rougher side, BUT, I have trouble with MY PERCEPTION of respect. I am a gentleman to the core yet got a deviant and dirty side. Took me FOREVER to accept smacking a womans ass with her approval.... but I have had a taste of it!
I am a hopeless romantic than can absolutely "make love" to a provider and make sure SHE is satisfied and content. Yet I enjoy getting little physical and rough by my standards. That would be a little hair pulling, Being physically dominant but not aggressive:if you will. Light choking and force with a passionate kiss in between!
NOW, I cant smack a woman accross face. I also have a hang up where i think releasing on a womans face is disrespectful, even if shes OK with it! And with aboave stated, I also enjoy being dominated and told what to do and how... I know, its hypocritical as if she says she wants it all over her face that I just cant seem to accept it!
SO... How do I approach this with a "date"? As I am typing I am having a AHHA
moment.... Send her here to read my wants and desires instead of trying to figure an acronym to fit!