Alternative ways to verify

[lpnintraining2011]

To start with, I was pretty well into the hobby between '07 to '09 in the SYR area, relying heavily on escort.com. I now hobby occationaly, mostly with providers utr and on bp that don't require verification.

I would like to start seeing providers on eccie that are not necessarily "newbie" friendly or require references. So here is my dilemma:

I am a licensed health professional and could provide information much more reliable than other forms of verification...which I feel 99% of providers would be more than willing to accept.

However, do I take the risk to provide critical, personnel/professional information that will forever be out there just to be with providers on eccie?

Any feedback would be appreciated...everyone be safe

[offshoredrilling]

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[VictoriaLyn]

Use that info and get a P411 account..You will never have to give that info to a provider

[prograde]

I'm a "newbie" too so I'm in the same boat. I've lurked on here and the previous board and the one thing that always struck me is the guys saying DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR EMPLOYMENT INFORMATION (actually they said don't give out ANY information, just your handle, but some of us can be a little more flexible than guys who are married, high profile executives, businessmen or politicians).

You wouldn't see that said over and over if it weren't true. I'll give a provider my name and my address and my car (one or two of them, haha), I'll host you at my house, I'll meet you for drinks or dinner or chit chat, jump through a few hoops and do almost anything to make them feel comfortable and know that A: I'm not LE and B: all I want is to pay your rate and enjoy our time together then leave you alone and in return you leave me alone (unless you want to send me an infrequent email or text telling me you miss me, haha). Plus I know that if a provider meets/sees me they'll know I'm not LE and the only question they'll have is if I'm going to be some loser Klingon who thinks they're my girlfriend because I paid them $250 for an hour of their time.

The problem is that there's retards out there who fall in love and cause problems or waste providers time and you have to prove to them that you understand this is a fantasy that goes off at an hourly rate with a start and end time and that you are willing and able to abide by that.

I was thinking about this with the other verification thread, it's a lot of work initially, it's like a second (or third or fourth) job. You have to build up a reputation and take a lot of intermediary steps on your way to the professional leagues but it's worth doing those steps to get to the top.

That being said, it sounds like you have a lot to lose by giving up your employment information so don't do it, be patient. You don't start in the NFL right off the bat without proving yourself, you build a solid reputation and eventually providers know you're good enough to fill in when their regulars leave them hanging and then you become a regular.

Did the Raiders ask the 49'ers for Jerry Rice's medical records when they signed him? Hell no, they knew he'd catch a pass wherever they threw it because he had a solid reputation...

EDIT: Thanks VictoriaLyn, I'm seriously thinking about P411 because it sounds like a good way to jump ahead without going through a lot of brain damage.

[Guest121613]

P411 is really good. Some providers, u will still need a + or two, so u still will need to get veryified another way. Most of the quality eccie ladies are on P411, plus a couple who are anti eccie.

One of my first eccie ladies I met, we did not do anything illegal on our first meeting. That was odd, but effective, our next time together was what would be a regular service. Ironically, this may not be a bad way to go to get established.

As far as sharing identity horror stories, there are some horror stories, but that is the exception, but lots at risk. U will be surprised how ur phone number, or email can be used to know who u are anyway, or even get ur license plate number. Some actual have LE connections.

I have used identity a couple of times. I would never share with a provider who is pimped, known to be on PT, or otherwise shows unstable personality traits.

In the higher end, there is a professionalism, and is not uncommon for a provider to know more personal info concerning their client.

[prograde]

thanks lostforkate, that's great info! I guess the info you give out depends on who lpnintraining (or any of us) is going to see. It would make me very nervous knowing someone had my employment info and decided to use it to harm me.

[SweetElizabeth]

Originally Posted by lpnintraining2011

To start with, I was pretty well into the hobby between '07 to '09 in the SYR area, relying heavily on escort.com. I now hobby occationaly, mostly with providers utr and on bp that don't require verification.

I would like to start seeing providers on eccie that are not necessarily "newbie" friendly or require references. So here is my dilemma:

I am a licensed health professional and could provide information much more reliable than other forms of verification...which I feel 99% of providers would be more than willing to accept.

However, do I take the risk to provide critical, personnel/professional information that will forever be out there just to be with providers on eccie?

Any feedback would be appreciated...everyone be safe

I would think your best bet would be to provide the info to Date-check or P411.

Now, there are some ladies who require 2 plus references at those sites, and there are some ladies who will require additional screening anyway.

I use P411 and Date Check mostly to see if a gent has seen reputable ladies that I know are cool and very safe.

In other words, if a gent has seen 8 providers from LA to Ohio those references are probably not going to be sufficient unless I see a traveling lady reference listed like Tia Travels, who I know is cool.

If you were to contact me, with no references I would be able to do one of the following:
1. Give you a professional call at work
2. If a call is not acceptable, I can utilize a third party company (NOT adult business oriented) to verify your employment.
3. If a call is not acceptable, I can utilize that third party company to verify your professional licences.

A couple notes: If you use P411 or D-C, check to see if that alone is enough to get you in with the provider you wish to see. 2. If you utilize a newbie friendly provider who screens, be sure to know that she is solid in the upstate community and at providing references to other providers and approvals at P411 and D-C.

Originally Posted by lpnintraining2011

However, do I take the risk to provide critical, personnel/professional information that will forever be out there just to be with providers on eccie?

This is a question many men ask. Nobody, except you, will be able to answer it.

Good luck! Happy hobbying!

[qixerotic]

P411 is very helpful, particularly when traveling, or, building some local credibility to use for future references. They will require specific info, and, they will verify it. That said, the providers do not have access to the real life info? My take, P411 ladies have all been reputable and i've had nothing but ease when using the service. They do offer a lifetime membership, but you have to ask for it. It cost about what you'd pay for 3-4 yearly subscriptions and, I think you have to be a member for 2 years to qualify.

[snowman123]

Date Check has worked well for me, Indys is another alternative. P411 sounds like it is secure too. But ya gotta start somewhere. I have things at risk too, I don't put that info out there. I stick with the established providers and they can be a great source of information too.

[offshoredrilling]

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