Sending a thank you/feedback PM after session... appreciated or creepy?

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by davidsmith0123

This is Gneiss's answer to someone who said he will say thank you after a provider says thank you -- I guess the client better start the sequence in case the client falls into a certain category mentioned above.

That's a very valid point Gneiss makes. What's wrong with a simple sincere TY at the end of the session from both sides with tip included if all that appreciative? Business is concluded at that point. If she was great I told her so and moved on with my life and business.

I was interested in a provider for the hour that I booked her only. I never daydreamed about her afterward, basked in the glow or maintained enough interest that I start sending TY texts well after the fact.

I realize that's just me. When I did hobby I hired providers for the fantasy, had a wonderful time and moved on.

Then again I've never called the same provider twice so I realize that's just me.

We all have our own ideas of what hobbying means to us.

Again that is a very valid point about receiving unsolicited TY's from a provider after the fact.
I'm single but I can see how that could be a serious blunder for someone with an SO.

[davidsmith0123]

Cody, changing the subject and possibly guilty of hijacking the thread, but I like your signature line -- the top one. "I'm a true lover of all things beautiful, petite, and exotic." It nearly captures my preferences, but I will resist any urge to steal it. I would add intelligent to your list, and note that beautiful, petite, exotic, and intelligent is a rare combination. Someone possessing such qualities might indeed be loved, and treasured.

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by davidsmith0123

Cody, changing the subject and possibly guilty of hijacking the thread,

Thread topic revolves around sending thank you's after the fact which my posts are all in line with.

However your fascination with my sig. line has Zero to do with the thread.

Who exactly is guilty of changing subject matter and hijacking?

[Guest021716-4]

We, including myself, can share the most intimate of moments, but are worried about thank you notes. It's kind of sad in a way. I just try to go with the flow. As a general rule, I try not contact guys, not because I am not thankful . I just feel like I may be imposing or that if that if they wanted to talk to me they would reach out.

I do that in my personal life too! That's probably why I am somewhat of a loner. Poor social skills, lol! I am just better one on one!!

Or maybe it's my upbringing? You know the whole not chasing boys thing. It must be deeply ingrained. The few times I have thrown out some unsolicited special or something it just felt wrong.

[LuvThatKitty]

Just a reminder folks. The OP asked about a thank you PM after a FUN SESSION. Unsolicited communication (even a thank you) via email or text was not mentioned. Unfortunately, like almost any long thread, we lose track of what the thread was all about.

[AcesHigh]

Cody,

I think he meant that he might be guilty of hijacking the thread.

I have had a lot of providers text me a thank you. I enjoy getting them.

Aces

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by AcesHigh

Cody,

I think he meant that he might be guilty of hijacking the thread.

Aces

Ooops pardon me David

[Lady Crystal]

I always relish a note stating my visit was well- appreciated and hit the spot. Stress release and self-acceptance are the goal.......suggestions for future sessions are good, reserve those for a separate email, perhaps.