Provider with a SO or with out?

[levi tab]

Hi Sonya

[Hollywood101]

Originally Posted by hornbill

An so is not much of an issue as a provider telling you she got creampied before your session from her so. Now that's what a daty lover never wants to hear. At least I don't. And yes, that really happened and i haven't been back since. I'm sure it happens a lot but that's a risk you take. I just don't want to know. Makes you wonder why some are so wet lol. Sorry guys if I'm spoiling it for you.

Ok, now that's just wrong! I can't believe a provider did that to you. I think any lady with an SO should take into consideration the gent she will be seeing after a sex romp with her SO. No cream pies before a date unless it's a fetish that was requested. Thinking about it from my pov, I wouldn't want to see a gent that just had his Johnson in his wife's ass, ewww! I'm sure it's probably happened but I don't want to hear about it, haha.

As far as if a provider has an SO or not, I really don't think it should be a deal breaker for a hobbyist to base his decision to see her or not. We are all in this community to play and have fun. I think the ones it may bother are the ones trying to nab a girlfriend, in that case they shouldn't even be playing in this little world of ours. The gents that don't like the fact a lady may have an SO shouldn't even ask the question if they don't really want the answer, lol. Now, if a lady does have an SO and he doesn't know about it, I can see where shit might hit the fan if he found out about her secret life and caused a very embarrassing scene for all parties involved. I seriously hope that hasn't happened to anybody, eeek!

Just to touch on a comment that was related about providers with SO's, I actually know a few ladies who do have an SO and it doesn't mean they are not cherished and loved by their man or that their guy is a leech or dead beat. These couples have a kinky/erotic streak and this is a great outlet for them as a couple. I have been around these people and they have some of the strongest bonds I've ever seen. I believe it takes a huge amount of trust in a person to let their SO provide or for a woman to let her SO hobby. I've seen both sides and those relationships are usually the strongest. I applaud all those, providers and hobbyists, who have an SO and can still keep things "real." Now, I've also seen the dead beat leeches too, but that is with everyday life and normal jobs as well, it's not just rooted to providers with SO's.

[Guest061613]

I don't mind but if he is going to watch, the session better be free and no joining in.

[Netx9]

So if they have an SO, wouldn't they be called and ISO?

In-Significant Other

:-)

[Netx9]

^Hollywood

Just a little humor, not discounting the happy couples you speak of so eloquently above. Actually know a couple like that here at home - have even had drinks with the gent and very salt of the earth. Even shares some of her likes with me... Weird at first, but so cool!

[Hollywood101]

Originally Posted by Netx9

^Hollywood

Just a little humor, not discounting the happy couples you speak of so eloquently above. Actually know a couple like that here at home - have even had drinks with the gent and very salt of the earth. Even shares some of her likes with me... Weird at first, but so cool!

I know babe, I got ya. ;-) Being around the couples was weird at first to me too but once I got to know them, I understood it perfectly. Something you just gotta see to believe.

[QUOTE=Netx9;1052799849]So if they have an SO, wouldn't they be called and ISO?

In-Significant Other

:-)[/

Gotta have you clarify real quick: are you saying "In-Significant Other" as in when they are "plugged in" (haha) to one another like he's "in" her or saying they are just flat out Insignificant because she's a provider?

[Netx9]

Really just a play on words and acronym ISO... But was thinking your first interpretation... Hence the hyphen in In-Significant :-)

[Hollywood101]

Originally Posted by Netx9

Really just a play on words and acronym ISO... But was thinking your first interpretation... Hence the hyphen in In-Significant :-)

Hehe, clever man.

[CrimsonValkyrie]

Yeah...what Levi said...

In my mind they all have an SO...remember it is a fantasy...

But when you really know they do have an SO, it's so much fucking better

[foxyred73]

Naughty the better at home so they come play with you

[foxyred73]

I dont understand if your man or other half of lady to understand your question to anwers your view

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by levi tab

In my mind they all have an SO...remember it is a fantasy...

But when you really know they do have an SO, it's so much fucking better

Sir Levi...

You are SUCH a LITTLE DEVIL!! Lol... I can almost picture that naughty twinkle in your eye right now... Lol

Your adoring slave,

Guinevere

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by Hollywood101

Ok, now that's just wrong! I can't believe a provider did that to you. I think any lady with an SO should take into consideration the gent she will be seeing after a sex romp with her SO. No cream pies before a date unless it's a fetish that was requested. Thinking about it from my pov, I wouldn't want to see a gent that just had his Johnson in his wife's ass, ewww! I'm sure it's probably happened but I don't want to hear about it, haha.

As far as if a provider has an SO or not, I really don't think it should be a deal breaker for a hobbyist to base his decision to see her or not. We are all in this community to play and have fun. I think the ones it may bother are the ones trying to nab a girlfriend, in that case they shouldn't even be playing in this little world of ours. The gents that don't like the fact a lady may have an SO shouldn't even ask the question if they don't really want the answer, lol. Now, if a lady does have an SO and he doesn't know about it, I can see where shit might hit the fan if he found out about her secret life and caused a very embarrassing scene for all parties involved. I seriously hope that hasn't happened to anybody, eeek!

Just to touch on a comment that was related about providers with SO's, I actually know a few ladies who do have an SO and it doesn't mean they are not cherished and loved by their man or that their guy is a leech or dead beat. These couples have a kinky/erotic streak and this is a great outlet for them as a couple. I have been around these people and they have some of the strongest bonds I've ever seen. I believe it takes a huge amount of trust in a person to let their SO provide or for a woman to let her SO hobby. I've seen both sides and those relationships are usually the strongest. I applaud all those, providers and hobbyists, who have an SO and can still keep things "real." Now, I've also seen the dead beat leeches too, but that is with everyday life and normal jobs as well, it's not just rooted to providers with SO's.

I happen to agree with Hollywood101... in regards to the issue of having a SO while also being a provider. I have to admit... in the beginning... I did not think it would be possible to have the best of both worlds... but I have to admit... that I have met some lovely couples that I take care of... and I've met some incredible providers who have SO's... who not only support their partner's financially but also emotionally as well...

I don't think that this is an easy thing for your traditional couple to deal with... but there are a great many couples... who have open relationships... and the bond is just incredibly strong...

Before I became "Slave Guinevere" I actually dated a COUPLE for about 4 months... It was GREAT!! It was like ONE STOP SHOPPING!! Lol... The only reason it ended... was because I became very ill... and I terminated the relationship because I needed to focus on getting well... and I didn't want to put them through all of that...

However, what made their relationship work so well... was that they were completely honesty and open... with their feelings and their activities... and because of this... they have been together... close to 10 years...

My hats off... to anyone... who is able to accept someone... for all of their quirks... and naughty little picadillo's...

Your reflective slave,

Guinevere

[JohnnyYanks]

Lovely thoughts.

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

My hats off... to anyone... who is able to accept someone... for all of their quirks... and naughty little picadillo's...

Your reflective slave,

Guinevere

... Or even their peccadilloes! :-)

Hi Guinevere!