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Old 04-23-2013, 07:43 PM   #1
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Default WHATS YOUR PROVIDER SHELF LIFE?

I have seen plenty of ladies over the years, some get better with time, and some seem to get worse or do not progress at all. I have always found in Civie sex that the longer you see someone, that it seems to get better in the bedroom as familiarity with each other grows. I have had streaks with providers where every time you see them they turn it up a notch.

I have seen a provider lately ( she shall remain nameless for the purpose of this discussion) that I totally dig her body and her look, she is sweet and kind. It seems that when I read the reviews of other guys experience, it becomes apparent that "she just not that into me". Its almost like there is a script that she is following, or a formula for our session.

My question here is do I cut bait and run, or give it more time?
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Old 04-23-2013, 08:37 PM   #2
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run run fast and do not get involved.
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Old 04-23-2013, 09:22 PM   #3
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don't waste your time with girls like that....there are some other providers here who LUV what they do & who they do!
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Old 04-23-2013, 09:27 PM   #4
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Sometimes I think its hard to tell if that has to do with real life situations or not. I truly try to pull back when I am not excited about meeting a client. I don't want to be that "jaded provider", but sometimes these guys can really take the fun out of things. I am a provider that also has a real life job. I highly recommend it. I think being able to pick and choose your dates is much better than depending on the hobby. I prefer to enjoy making money than feeling I have to do this to make money. It's different for everyone.

That being said, if I were a 22 year old spinner with a GFE attitude, I'd say "fuck it" and charge $500/hour! lol

easy killers....
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Old 04-23-2013, 09:28 PM   #5
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Sorry, but my ass reminds me of glazed donut holes
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Old 04-23-2013, 09:36 PM   #6
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If the feeling isn't mutual... Leave, no need to spend money on someone who is not into you....But even if the feeling is mutual
Use your big head first before diving in too deep...Or you "Will" get burned...
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Old 04-23-2013, 09:46 PM   #7
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I am a professional and work hard to know what each client is looking for in each session...I treat all my clients with the same intensity or level of excitement....I also have a special connection with repeat clients that keeps me a good reputation.
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Old 04-24-2013, 03:49 AM   #8
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It seems that when I read the reviews of other guys experience, it becomes apparent that "she just not that into me".
You don't believe their "reviews" do you?

Guys (with a few exceptions - very few) always write reviews that make them look like Conan the Barbarian and make the girl look like a damsel in heat who is unable to control herself in his presence.

Honestly - if the girls could read the ROS in our reviews - they'd laugh their asses off because they know the truth!!

THE QUESTION IS ... Do you enjoy your time with her? I like variety so I do like to see different girls from time to time but it's very nice to keep coming back to someone you know who's familiar.
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Old 04-24-2013, 08:08 AM   #9
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You don't believe their "reviews" do you?

I think you may be on to something here Averni. I read these reviews with a grain of salt, but even allowing for a bit of exageration, I still feel that either she is holding back with me.....or I just don't do it for her.



THE QUESTION IS ... Do you enjoy your time with her? I like variety so I do like to see different girls from time to time but it's very nice to keep coming back to someone you know who's familiar.
I have over the years done just that, I have seen a great variety of providers, and at times I would just see one girl often. The best of times were with the familiar face. She knew what I liked and she served it up on a silver platter every time. I really thought I had found another one of those ladies after the first visit, but I'm not so sure anymore.
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Old 04-24-2013, 11:39 AM   #10
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I am a provider that also has a real life job. I highly recommend it. I think being able to pick and choose your dates is much better than depending on the hobby. I prefer to enjoy making money than feeling I have to do this to make money.
Exactly what I'm preaching around here lol

Balance people. Not Greed
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Old 04-25-2013, 10:05 AM   #11
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Of course there are providers that we click with and want to see again. I'd get out if you feel like the fantasy world has become something emotional for you. I don't read details of reviews, or really care if a provider aims to please other clients more than me.
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:00 PM   #12
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Well.....

I went into a session today with said provider, and the best way to say it is THIS GIRL WAS ON FIRE. It was a great session, maybe I caught her on a bad day or really tired last time.

Anyway, thanks for your input.
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Old 04-25-2013, 09:16 PM   #13
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Maybe she read this thread?? Anyway I always say its a chemistry thing. I have 20 guys LOVE a girl...then boom oughta nowhere a regular (nice guy) will say he just didnt click. Happens with Riley and Amanda all the time. xxoo annie
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Old 04-26-2013, 06:21 AM   #14
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Sorry, but my ass reminds me of glazed donut holes
Mmmmm... doughhhhh-nuuuuuts...
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Old 04-26-2013, 05:11 PM   #15
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i have to agree with averni. but i must admit, i AM one of those clients who can make a provider O, just from my sheer awesomeness entering a room. *cough, cough*

i 'skim' the ros simply to glean the info i'm looking for as far as activities, etc. it's human nature for one to click with one and not another. do i care that she may be into other fellas and not me? no. but i do care if she makes me feel like i am enjoyable and not just another bill payer or interruption to her day? yes. and that attitude will dictate how fast i leave.

the situation presented itself recently with a lady i've seen more than once when in the middle of having fun i had to stop and ask her 'who's paying who here???' i read every review on her and sometimesi do see the same feelings toward her from others but as long as she is that way with me, i'm not really bothered with it.

if it does bother you, perhaps you're getting a little too involved with the big head. but as others have said, familiarity does add to the activities and just like in real life, we all have our good days and bad days.
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