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Old 04-04-2013, 11:07 AM   #1
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When setting up a session, when does one discuss role playing? What the senario will be. Is it best for me (the guy) to provide any special "props", (scarves or rope for BDSM senarios)?
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it is a lot of fun I do a lot of it. I won't talk about it until after screening and a few messages back and forth or else I shut down and Pass. If she does agree and says you can bring props don't bring anything really advanced or that she didn't agree to in your bag it could scare her and have her shut down to it. Communication is extremely important.
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My reality is strange enough for most ladies.
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Old 04-04-2013, 08:31 PM   #4
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When setting up a session, when does one discuss role playing? What the senario will be. Is it best for me (the guy) to provide any special "props", (scarves or rope for BDSM senarios)?
Unless you're hiring a girl for her specialty, I think you're better off bringing the toys you need and being prepared to leave them as gifts.
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Very difficult to find good role playing sp's in the area unless you've seen them before. When you are a new client, most girls seem a little reluctant to talk scenarios over the phone. I have had much better luck when travelling and setting them up through e-mail. I've tried to set up a simple seduction scenario multiple times and haven't found a provider who could pull it off yet. They always seem to want to go over everything again when we meet or something and that just ruins the fantasy.

Lexxxy is great at trying new things and I've done some mild domme scenarios with her and they have always been successful. Unfortunately, I missed her last couple trips here.
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Old 04-07-2013, 08:30 PM   #7
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it is a lot of fun I do a lot of it. I won't talk about it until after screening and a few messages back and forth or else I shut down and Pass. If she does agree and says you can bring props don't bring anything really advanced or that she didn't agree to in your bag it could scare her and have her shut down to it. Communication is extremely important.
I agree, you are so smart!

@ op

I do not do much more then vanilla. I do get asked for role play on occasion. I respond better to that type of request if it is handled in an email as a prebook. That way I can get an unrushed feel for what the client is looking for. I then decide either no, or ya sure, or if we should meet for a short appointment first. The short appointment might be to discuss more details and check chemistry, or check chemistry to see if the role play appointment is possible for me to do with that client.

Role play for me is weird if the chemistry is off or I can't handle the scenario.

It's kinda like gay for pay.. fantasy appointments need to be as real as possible for a client to receive exactly what he is paying for. That matters to me.


It probably depends on what type of menu the sp has that you are asking??!

As a vanilla..ish... menu sp ( not speaking for all) clients get farther taking things slow through email and possibly a short appointment first.

Fast inquiries through text or email almost always get declined right away from me
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Taint tickling is not role playing ... thanck Tebow ...
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Taint tickling is not role playing ... thanck Tebow ...
Unless .. You are a strict boss who happens to find his new enthusiastic secretary, who desperately needs a raise, face down ass up in her mini skirt..after breaking a heel and tripping on your office carpet!

Hmmm.. What to do...
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Old 04-08-2013, 07:28 PM   #10
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Unless .. You are a strict boss who happens to find his new enthusiastic secretary, who desperately needs a raise, face down ass up in her mini skirt..after breaking a heel and tripping on your office carpet!

Hmmm.. What to do...
Help her up, ask if she's okay, and tell her to go out and get some new shoes.

Hey, wait... I remember a picture of someone shopping in a shoe store...Hmmm, what indeed!
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