Best approach?

[jjchmiel78]

How do you guys handle it and how do you ladies prefer it handled? I have noticed a few providers that have a lower advertised rate on backpage versus their P411 page. Personally I would think with the "legitimate customer with a history" that P411 offers they would have better rates there. I have also noticed these same providers that some of you have reviewed mentioned the backpage rates in the reviews.

[CynicalSapien]

If I arrange the get together via P411 or use P411 for screening, I typically pay the P411 rate. I have never had anyone question me on it or refuse to see me again because I had "shorted" them. That being said, I rarely use BP for anymore than first line recon.

[jjchmiel78]

As an example BP add says $200 per hour and the P411 profile say $300. Meaning I'd like to pay the BP rate but set up through P411 since providers tend to be more relaxed and easier to set up a time with.

[huskerguyomaha]

When sending the appt request on P411, I wouldn't be bashful about mentioning in the comments that you saw she was running a special on BP. By using BP you are making her screening easier (if she screens) compared to some Joe Schmoe who isn't a P411 member. If she doesn't honor the BP rate, move on!

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

For my upcoming trips to Omaha/Lincoln I kept my rates advertised here and on my visiting p411 ads the same (which are lower than my "usual" rates which I make clear in both places also. I see it as special incentives for certain clients). If he finds me on eros/bp or something like that and is not an eccie member/p411 etc (which I will ask as I screen) then he's subject to my usual rates. It's not unusual for ladies to have a lower rate on P411 than elsewhere. If you saw 200hr one place and 300hr another place IMO I don't see the problem with bringing it up to her. IF she has a problem with you paying the lower rate well she shouldn't have advertised it in the first place. I don't believe in advertising an discount or "special" and then getting mad if the client decides to accept it. o_-

[LayneLaughlin]

Yep. Exactly what Mocha said.