How long can it last! WOW!

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Originally Posted by Cpalmson

For guys, I really don't buy the quitters after one time due to guilt. I'm sure it is out there, but I think once one embarks down this path, it will be in their blood. It might not necessarily be looking to meet providers, but to meet a variety of women in general to quench their needs (whatever they may be). For a guy, I think it would be really hard to stop or at least stop the urges.

I agree that a lot of these guys keep looking for a variety of women, but I've listened to a lot who used an escort once or twice, and had the guilt reaction. Somehow they don't see a whole series of bar pickups, etc., as the same thing. They can say, "I didn't pay for it so it isn't the same thing!", even though I subtily point out room + drinks + misc is usually more than the would have paid an escort. The mind (theirs) can really rationalize itself when it wants to.

Originally Posted by elgato111

Been in the hobby for 30+ years myself. My current AFT has been doing it for 7 years. Girls come and go do to various reasons but most of the girls I have seen last average of about 5 years in my experience.

Same kind of numbers for me, excapt my very frequent ladies ave a bit more than that. But I doubt the ladies I see are "typical" in that regard. I tend to see the "lifers" as CPalmson referrs to them--I am very selective in who I return to see, and I guess there is something about that group often fits what I am looking for.