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01-06-2013, 12:24 PM
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Join Date: Dec 28, 2012
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Any tips for first independent provider experience?
Alright, I'm looking for any tips (from providers mainly or seasoned pros) about what I can do to make my first independent experience go well for both of us. I'm a laid back guy, and just want to try and be a "model client" as far as the whole process goes. Not really concerned about the "performance" aspect (that's usually easy enough, especially since I'm gonna be paying for it, less pressure, lol), but pretty much everything else. Thanks!
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01-06-2013, 12:48 PM
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Join Date: Dec 14, 2011
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Relax and enjoy the experience. One thing that will help is to have some light conversation to start the meeting, and then progress into some LFK which will lead to DFK which will lead to the cloths flying.
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01-06-2013, 01:01 PM
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Gaining Momentum
Join Date: Nov 28, 2012
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The best advice I got about meeting a provider was to be yourself and to treat providers like you want to be treated (I.e. with respect and courtesy). And +1 to WYAR said about relaxing and having a natural progession to the meeting. If you tell the provider that its your first time visiting an erotic companion, many times (especially if she is good at what she does) she will take extra care to make sure you are relaxed and enjoying the visit. Having your first visit be an established, well reviewed provider on ECCIE can lift a lot of the anxiety surrounding the meeting because you've already read reviews and can basically know what to expect. Being on p411 can help everyone be more comfortable as well since there's been some screening. I'm new to hobbying too, but these are just some things I've learned by reading the boards here and elsewhere. Maybe this helps!
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01-06-2013, 01:44 PM
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Join Date: Jan 19, 2010
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Get a 2 hour session. It allows you more time to get to know the lady, maybe have a drink and takes some of the time pressure off.
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01-06-2013, 02:14 PM
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Join Date: Apr 14, 2010
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ALL of you sound like dream hobbyists! I already know this of WYAR, he is a wonderful guy!
I hope to meet more of the very special MS guys.
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01-06-2013, 02:26 PM
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Thanks everyone, awesome info, keep it coming!
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01-06-2013, 09:30 PM
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Join Date: Apr 25, 2011
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In addition to all the advice above, I would suggest this: Bring cash. (Just covering all the bases...)
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01-06-2013, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ufriend2912
In addition to all the advice above, I would suggest this: Bring cash. (Just covering all the bases...)
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Correct sir, nothing like the greenbacks!
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01-06-2013, 10:10 PM
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HELL's bell ringer!!
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just sit back & enjoy the journey!!
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01-06-2013, 10:12 PM
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I didn't offer a providers POV, forgive me! Prepare for a date as you would with any other woman, freshly showered and groomed. You already have a positive attitude, so bring that with you! Communicate, very important! Not just in the exchange of info, but also when you are on a date. If you like something, say so and the lady will do it again, and again! Research and read about the lady that interests you, you can learn as much from a ladies posts as you can her reviews.
Last but not least, be ready to have fun!
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01-06-2013, 10:31 PM
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Join Date: Dec 14, 2011
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Since I've meet Nicolet several times, you can count on what she is sayings. She is one lady who does enjoy this hobby.
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01-06-2013, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicolet
I didn't offer a providers POV, forgive me! Prepare for a date as you would with any other woman, freshly showered and groomed. You already have a positive attitude, so bring that with you! Communicate, very important! Not just in the exchange of info, but also when you are on a date. If you like something, say so and the lady will do it again, and again! Research and read about the lady that interests you, you can learn as much from a ladies posts as you can her reviews.
Last but not least, be ready to have fun!
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Awesome post! Hopefully I can get my schedule in sync with hers this week and get the show on the road! Lots of nervous energy and excitement, especially for something I stumbled across a little over a week ago.
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01-07-2013, 10:47 PM
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Pending Age Verification
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Join Date: Dec 23, 2011
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Moshi-Moshi randomgoober:
My name is Haruka
Ms.Nicolet's on point, follow my Thread on Main Discussion Forum - National...
“How Does A Provider Hobby Without Her Heart?”
I offer Low-Volume, High-Quality, Reputable & Reliable Companionship!!!
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01-08-2013, 06:24 AM
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Join Date: Nov 5, 2010
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A few hints:
Don't discuss the donation once you arrive, just put it down. I use an envelope with a card in it.
Treat this like any real world date, right down to the minty fresh breath!
Relax, and don't rush
Bring her a gift, such as flowers or a bottle of wine.
Enjoy!
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01-08-2013, 08:30 AM
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Nice touch!
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