First Timers and Real Life Informaton

[GP]

pass

Surprised she did not ask for SS#, blood type and emergency contact/spouses info.

[SweetElizabeth]

Tatiana,
It sounds as if you already know your boundaries and what you deem acceptable. What info are you looking for? Can you please be more specific in what you are seeking?

Xx
Liz

[JohnnyCap]

I suppose whoever has more to lose is going to be more interested in the screening process happening. It's part of the cost on someone's end as well.

As far as outing goes, there has to be a sense of what comes around goes around. If you're playing with someone who will ask your idenity but doesn't get that, you've got loose ends.

What about Facebook to screen? Say a client could show you a developed facebook profile with pictures of him being Mr. Joe Great Citizen. Would that be a screening you'd consider?

[guest102613-2]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

I suppose whoever has more to lose is going to be more interested in the screening process happening. It's part of the cost on someone's end as well.

As far as outing goes, there has to be a sense of what comes around goes around. If you're playing with someone who will ask your idenity but doesn't get that, you've got loose ends.

What about Facebook to screen? Say a client could show you a developed facebook profile with pictures of him being Mr. Joe Great Citizen. Would that be a screening you'd consider?

have you seen the show catfish on mtv? no way to fb

[roscoe14850]

Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

have you seen the show catfish on mtv? no way to fb

[GP]

Facebook and hobbying should never be mixed, EVER! That is rule #12

[pyramider]

If the fucktard refuses to give screening info just tell him "Happy hunting," and hang up. Pretty simple process. The ladies should screen and I have always advocated screening.

Now I have had a couple of ladies that wanted information that was too private. At that point, there was no more interest on my part and I moved on.

GP is absolutely correct about Facebook. Do not use Facebook to screen someone. As a matter of fact, some providers have their provider personas lincked to their real life information on Facebook. Hobby and Facebook will not mix well and will bite someone in the ass.

[jackfengshui]

Anyone who values one's privacy should have nothing to do with Facebook, period.

[offshoredrilling]

If you love your space, just say No to MySpace and younger sister FaceBook. And anything like them.

[Frankie Fine]

I would love to help with US referrals when possible. I can completely understand how dangerous it can be to hobby over there. I am verified and pretty active on this board, however many providers do not find me a credible reference because I do not have to screen the same in Canada.

I can understand, and at the same time I am confused about why I can not always vouch for a regular. I find it makes sense more if I have only had one appointment with a client if a lady does not feel comfortable accepting my verification.

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[Always Horny]

Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Anyone who values one's privacy should have nothing to do with Facebook, period.

Exactly!

[travelersteve]

I am also struggling with this. I do not want to give out my real identity either - including to a site I know nothing about (date-check, P411), but I understand the provider's concerns and I can't blame them for it. I also realize that they are taking a much bigger risk than I am.

Still, I am trying to find a provider in my area that I am interested in that will accept someone who appears to be a newbie due to a lack of references (though I'm not really a newbie) and that would be willing to be a reference for me afterward. I want to protect the provider's identity and I'm fine not knowing their real identity, but I want to have the same confidentiality. This has been a real problem for me. I have understandably missed out on more than one provider because of this.

I don't have a good answer for this. Those of you that already have a provider reference are very lucky.

P.S., Tatiana - you're photos are beautiful!! When I do have a reference I'll definitely be calling you!

[GP]

TS- I hear ya brother!!!!! I am glad you are being smart about this. I am not sure "they" take a bigger risk or not. It all depends on if they have your info and decide to out you. Then who is taking the bigger risk?

In any event, I still suggest p411. You can be sure that your info would be safe there. Gina's ENTIRE business rests on keeping customers info safe and secure. If it was found out she let the info slip out even once, I bet there would be a shit storm of epic proportions.

[guest042413-2]

Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

So I've read some posts where a guy states that he will never give his real life info out, ever. I'm a little torn by this mentality, but not entirely against it either.

I'm one of those guys who recommend certain situations to guys.

If they have nothing to lose professionally or personally, then don't worry about it.

If they have something to lose professionally or personally, then don't share the info.

The provider is free to reject clients. If you get rejected because you have something to lose professionally or personally, a guy should consider himself okay. Move on because it is possible to hobby without giving yourself over the whims of a woman you don't know.

Now if you are a risk taker.... well, take your risks and accept the consequences if they come.

There are some disturbed people out there and just because you've had sex with them, that doesn't mean they are no longer disturbed.