Question on the kink Financial Domination/ Slavery

[Tylus_amore]

Okay as we all know there is an ass for every seat. So a couple of months ago i went public with the whole F/D thing and it's a hit. I make sure everything is legal for the state that i'm in.. I am asking are there a set of rules some where of what i should be doing besides making sure the accounts and credit cards are actually those of my clients. signing a release form etc.. I may be doing too much.. But these guys seem to like the idea of rape my wallet and throw me away... I decided to post a discussion for those that have actually done it to chime in or those that have some people in slavery to chime in on this subject... e.g.
There's several of my guys that i have now that will only follow my directions if it's over the phone if it's in a email or something they won't follow that command on purpose and then begs to buy his way back into my graces... Some guys say I want to sign up.. then tell me I don't want to do it mistress.,.. They are not really trying to get out of it they want to be Forced to pay..... Does that make sense... I tried joining a group like this on Fetlife but I guess real time dommes Aren't as welcomed.... Tributes are 100-1000.. besides stealing is there a wrong way to do this??

Thnx Mistress Ty..

[JayceeRivers]

I have actually done this before. I found that sitting down and discussing everything outright first helped for me. We discussed financial limits for the week or month and code words to hault the situation if they trully could not or did not want to pay. Otherwise the play ranged from mock stealing to demanding tributes.

The only one I ever wanted to try and never got to was the "spoiled brat" routine. Where you go out and all but tantrum to get what you want bought for you.

[ElisabethWhispers]

This topic has been really discussed a lot in the past in this forum. Hence, perhaps a lot of folks probably aren't responding. Maybe these topics will give you some insight as to what others think of financial domination.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

[ElisabethWhispers]

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ight=financial

All of the topics that I listed above have merit. But this topic really has a very forthright and excellent opinions from some people who I consider "real" experts.

I'm not a fan of financial domination and in the above topic, you'll read my feelings about it. I feel that TRULY dominating someone financially demands a LOT of responsibility.

It's easy to fantasize about someone giving you huge sums of money but the actual reality of it is very different. And there are VERY few people who actually wish for this to take place.

Otherwise, there are some suggestions, etc., that should be of some help.

Take care,
Elisabeth

[Roothead]

isnt this what my SO and children do for me every month? lol