barter?

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

Of course thats not bad. Quality haircare products can be expensive and really add up over time. To each their own. If thats what worked for you then it's not bad.

The beauty of losing one's hair ... no more combs, brushes, products, etc ...

[GP]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

I believe you do just fine..

once i get done with probation and a bench warrant ill get my enhanced liscence

im just finishing step 6 atoning and saying sorry step too, if people hadnt noticed around here

I thought if you Tebow'ed, you were allowed to skip a few steps???

[Lexxxy]

Originally Posted by ben dover

If you were in Texas you may get some play but around here most don't change out photos except for once every 3-4-10-ever? years. I've done a few shoots and the last two never even bothered to get the finished product or pay (or trade) for my time. I guess most gents are happy with out of focus cell phone mirror shots that could be me in the shot for all you can see..LOL..I do have a bunch on unclaimed shots...maybe some BP girls can use them? BD

Believe it or not I never ever ever had a MySpace style cell pic or anything like that for years. I thought it was classless and cheap. I didn't do it until I kept getting more and more requests for them and finally gave in. I am very new to BP and started using it in WNY after so many Gents told me they primarily check that instead of logging onto sites. I try not to post my pro pics there because when I do I get a million " are you just spam or an agency?"messages which are a waste of time and inbox space. Another odd thing, 95% of the Gents I have seen off of BP are from actual sites and just utilizing BP for last minute dates.

[ben dover]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Believe it or not I never ever ever had a MySpace style cell pic or anything like that for years. I thought it was classless and cheap. I didn't do it until I kept getting more and more requests for them and finally gave in. I am very new to BP and started using it in WNY after so many Gents told me they primarily check that instead of logging onto sites. I try not to post my pro pics there because when I do I get a million " are you just spam or an agency?"messages which are a waste of time and inbox space. Another odd thing, 95% of the Gents I have seen off of BP are from actual sites and just utilizing BP for last minute dates.

Lexxxy,
I agree about classless/cheap photos. If you look at the Texas forum or even BP for Dallas the photos there are waaaaaaaaaaaaaay better than what is acceptable here. I try to make the point if the ladies here had better photos it would set them above the majority. And when I say "pro photos" I don't mean stuff that has been retouched to the maximum. When I do a shoot for a provider the only editing I do is blur her face, crop out some background stuff, and fix a blemish that would be gone in a day or two anyway. They will be well lit, clear and in focus with the real skin tone.

Ya know nothing makes me hotter for a lady than a photo with a nightstand full of pop bottles, lube, a pile of condoms, with her ass pointed to a mirror, the flash covering half the shot and a big red zit right in the middle of her left ass cheek! ..LOL

I look at BP for the shear comedy of what these girls post.....And i'm not saying anything bad about you using BP, I understand marketing. I do think it is a lower price point market though, at least in my opinion. So all that being said..if you need photos done...........BD

[Lexxxy]

I do need to do new pics in a few months, the problem with a lot of my pics is that I either dont own the rights like my devilgirl or Im not aloud to post them here or they might scare off gfe Gents.

[offshoredrilling]

sweet atf, she paid me today for doing some odd jobs. Then tried to pay back rest she owed in cash. errrr no lets just start the tab over again starting from there please.

[TekMusic]

I once offer a provider $$ from my credit at one of the electronics store for a session, she said ok but changed her mind like an hour later, I was so looking forward to seen her.
It will be nice to barter once in a while.

[pyramider]

The problem with barter is both parties have to be up front and honest. In the hobby, as in real life, good luck to you.

[Goddessmaria]

I typically do not barter, I have exchanged for flights
That definitely comes in handy for my touring
Bartering is a roll of the dice and both parties should well discuss before entering into that type of arrangement.


Cash is always pleasant : )

[Lexxxy]

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Originally Posted by Goddessmaria

I typically do not barter, I have exchanged for flights
That definitely comes in handy for my touring
Bartering is a roll of the dice and both parties should well discuss before entering into that type of arrangement.


Cash is always pleasant : )

I love you! *Blushing*
....I ummmm mean good post!
I kind of do the same things with flights to Vegas. A regular flies me there and back to have an overnight and dinner another night but it isn't really a barter, its kind of like extreme outcall Lmfao.

[FlyboyNY]

Bartered a few times. Usually worked out ok. I agree with pyramider. Has to be predefined and kept as any other business transaction. One time I bartered and ended up not only with services rendered but a good friend. Another time I agreed to take someone with me when I flew to another town and she got terribly air sick. Turns out she had never flown before let alone in a small plane so I had no choice but to divert to a close airport and check her into a place. She was green as I have ever seen. I paid for the room and left her money to catch a bus home. She certainly did not want me to stop and pick her up on my way back home. We did get together later and had a good time but she retired shortly after that. I would always be open to barter but I have to get to know someone first. Otherwise I prefer to just pay cash.

[offshoredrilling]

what barnstorming move got her sick?????

Had that happen with a guy in the Adirondacks. He did not get past take off. Got sick just the plane going across the water to get to where to start take off.

I always liked small planes.

[AnnelieseBell]

Originally Posted by ben dover

I have offered to barter for photos a bunch of times. It hasn't worked out too good always. I agree to do a shoot and burn photos to a disc for a session, I wait to "collect" til I get the disc done and can get it to them. I will edit and add watermarks etc and get those to them also. Of the last three shoots I did two will not follow through with the agreement. I wont mention names, and I guess I can sell the images to some BP girl. I shoot with pro equipment, bring my lights and edit in photoshop. ..BD

You're going to sell the pictures to some backpage girl so that all the other guys on here can get tricked into seeing a girl with fake photos? Not cool. Call it a loss. Don't screw everyone else over just because a girl changed her mind. People have the right to change their minds. She didn't get the photos, you didn't get the sex. Sounds like an even exchange to me.
You've also just advertised yourself as an unethical business person. None of the legit girls who see this post will ever hire you.

[ben dover]

Originally Posted by AnnelieseBell

You're going to sell the pictures to some backpage girl so that all the other guys on here can get tricked into seeing a girl with fake photos? Not cool. Call it a loss. Don't screw everyone else over just because a girl changed her mind. People have the right to change their minds. She didn't get the photos, you didn't get the sex. Sounds like an even exchange to me.
You've also just advertised yourself as an unethical business person. None of the legit girls who see this post will ever hire you.

Hey Back off, I was kidding. I've been doing providers photos for 6 years and I have never shown anyone any photos that weren't their own. BD

[Goddessmaria]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

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I love you! *Blushing*
....I ummmm mean good post!
I kind of do the same things with flights to Vegas. A regular flies me there and back to have an overnight and dinner another night but it isn't really a barter, its kind of like extreme outcall Lmfao.

I have certainly done some extreme outcalls myself : )

In bartering, it never hurt's to ask.
However, I have received some ridiculous barter offers as well lol