stringing along

[dilbert firestorm]

you know who you are.

I don't appreciate being strung along on thursday afternoon after the appointed time. Despite my calling ahead to let you know that I was in the vicinity, you kept me waiting for 30 minutes as I didn't know what hotel you were staying in. After getting the hotel info when you finally called, I went to the hotel and was told to meet you by the side door to let me in. I waited 30 minutes before giving up. I made one call and got your vm.

if you didn't want to see me, that was a tactless way to do it.

I guess I was wrong that contacting someone on p411 would be problem free.

[DallasRain]

Sorry that happened babe...you are a great guy & don't deserve it!!!!

[guest042111]

Dayum! That sucks!

[hengentj]

I don't head out for an appointment unless I know ahead of time, through email, where I'm going to meet a lady. It has cost me a couple of meetings with ladies over the years, but it's never cost me the wasted time (which is more valuable to me, anyway).

[lowgear]

I would be pissed to DILBERT,but you are not helping your fellow dawgs,by not posting the name

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm

you know who you are.

I don't appreciate being strung along on thursday afternoon after the appointed time. Despite my calling ahead to let you know that I was in the vicinity, you kept me waiting for 30 minutes as I didn't know what hotel you were staying in. After getting the hotel info when you finally called, I went to the hotel and was told to meet you by the side door to let me in. I waited 30 minutes before giving up. I made one call and got your vm.

if you didn't want to see me, that was a tactless way to do it.

I guess I was wrong that contacting someone on p411 would be problem free.

forgot to include Eccie as she is here also.

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by hengentj

I don't head out for an appointment unless I know ahead of time, through email, where I'm going to meet a lady. It has cost me a couple of meetings with ladies over the years, but it's never cost me the wasted time (which is more valuable to me, anyway).

guess, I'll have to change a bit in how I reply in email regarding location.

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by lowgear

I would be pissed to DILBERT,but you are not helping your fellow dawgs,by not posting the name

if you want to know who, just pm me.

reason why I didn't write her name here is I didn't want to start a flame war with drama like what happened with Amber of J'adore which was unintended.

Also, she appeared legit ..... considering she has reviews.

[Guest051920]

While some ladies don't do this many do. Ladies it is not easy to sit in a hotel parking lot for an appointment.There are guest checking in/out,some have security staff that patrol the area a guy sitting in a car alone seems odd. If you are not at the location or have another guest give an accurate time.I've heard so many excuses.I forgot the appointment,Was in the shower,left my phone on vibrate,when to pickup food,condoms,etc.If you can't really meet at that time don't tell us.

[Guest010312-3]

Dilbert you are such a nice guy.....I hate to hear that this happened to you....

[DallasRain]

Dilbert babe...keep on keeping on!!!!There is another fun time close on the horizon!!

[Triggerdick]

Originally Posted by The.Prince

While some ladies don't do this many do. Ladies it is not easy to sit in a hotel parking lot for an appointment.There are guest checking in/out,some have security staff that patrol the area a guy sitting in a car alone seems odd. If you are not at the location or have another guest give an accurate time.I've heard so many excuses.I forgot the appointment,Was in the shower,left my phone on vibrate,when to pickup food,condoms,etc.If you can't really meet at that time don't tell us.

You make a very good point. Last April I was approached by a hotel security in Baton Rouge.

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by Triggerdick

You make a very good point. Last April I was approached by a hotel security in Baton Rouge.

Its an awkward position to be in when you run into this type situation. something to avoid when one can.

[Nicolet]

Sorry that happened Dil, I, for one, would NEVER treat my gentleman caller like that!

[gimme_that]

That sucks that this occurs as regularly as it does on incalls. I dont even like knocking on a ladys room door when I arrive for discreetness sake.

I mostly do outcalls and before the lady arrives I tell her to just nudge open the door......no reason to knock and attract attention to ourselves since I know shes here now.