Fetlife - Thoughts? Experiences?

[john_doe1978]

Fetlife.

Anyone here a member? I’m not but I’ve been considering it for quite some time.

Is it just people discussing kinks, fetishes and fantasies? Or do people actually meet up?

Overall, whether you’re just looking for discussion or to actually meet people - is it a worthwhile group to join?

Any other comments or opinions....please share!

Thanks!

[BenDover4it]

At $5 a month, it might be a nice indulgence.

[yourdesire]

I used to have a profile on there and met a couple people then started this.

[Gotyour6]

Think of it as craigslist.

Sausage fest and the few girls that are half way decent looking are there for stroking their ego.

[GypsyHeart]

I have been on there for years. It is NOT a hookup to fuck site. It is a site with profiles, events and discussions. Look in the events tab in you area for munches(socials) and your local dungeon. There are many discussion groups for various kinks. It does not cost anything to be a member. I also recommend bdsmtest.org and take the quiz. Rather lenghty and answer honestly. I take it every 6 months as my tastes fluctuate within being a Domme and a Sadist. Feel free to pm me with any questions.

[Ms. Athena]

A good learning Kink site. It is world wide so opens up new venues.

[Warptcuck]

I have been on there for years, my wife uses it for hook up's.

I use it to see what other's may do that I may like.
I have found a few fun people. Not many.

It's free for me. Not sure how the $5 thing came about.

[yourdesire]

It was free for me and that's where a friend of mine learned about the club/s he took me to.

[cimarron]

Dry Prong lol, I bought my last two trucks from the Ford dealer there

[explr77]

Your wife uses it for hook ups...that sounds pretty hot. Please tell us more...and what she likes.

Originally Posted by Warptcuck

I have been on there for years, my wife uses it for hook up's.

I use it to see what other's may do that I may like.
I have found a few fun people. Not many.

It's free for me. Not sure how the $5 thing came about.

[echo.2112]

I'm too efficient to stomach Fetlife as search features are antiquated with mimimal / random yields. Additonally, there's a degree of sanctimony on there with everyone boasting of their credentials which I find nauseating....

[Taco guy]

Was a member. No fees. But never had much luck hooking up with like minded playmates.

[sailingfwd]

I have had a membership for years. I visit it on and off. It’s basic membership is free, but for a small monthly fee, you get additional site access.

[H5678J]

What can I say, there is no other place like it! Positives and negatives. Worth a free membership and inexpensive monthly support to get extra site features.

[dreamvacationdates]

If you go on Fetlife and thinking you're going on a escort site, you'll be sadly mistaken, you may end up just giving money away as a paypig, and they got rid of the escort type ads or sound like ones a while back so they can stay inline with SESTA/FOSTA, their search capabilities is terrible, and unless you like seeing dicks, about every other picture on site is a dick pic and you can't avoid them, then go for it.