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BrookeButtons · 01-15-2011, 07:38 AM

When I got the first email... I was going to shrug it off. Maybe the gent is new and doesn't understand... but after getting a hand of the same type of emails from different gents, I feel this post will be a wonderful refresher. Obviously the new year has brought out a handful of disrespect gents or lack of knowledge....

Newbies whom may be trying to branch out and contact ladies, gents whom have see ladies in the past but have gotten sloppy and just a reminder to all you other wonderful handsome men:

PLEASE BE DISCRETE IN ALL EMAILS.

I am in a profession, there for I want to be spoken to in a professional manner. I am running a business. Do you speak to your doctor, barber or accountant like this? Do you send them inappropriate pictures of your self? I didn't think so! So kindly don't do it to my self or the other ladies either.

I am turning away and will continue to turn away customers who speak to me inappropriately or send these photos. It isn't making me "horny" and not making me want to jump off my vibrator to see you. And if this hasn't gotten into your "other" head because we know men think with the smaller head of the two....

The door is now locked
And has a chair behind it
so you can’t get in!!

My advice is to hold your self in a professional manor. You want to see Barbie, Kayla, myself or Whomever... Great you can be professional and discrete but making sure your self and the lady are still on the same page.

My advice for the gents that are starting to feel comfortable with talking with a lady and never emailed a provider before, do your research on her to find out what information she wants, then contact her with an indroduction (and by that I don't me how tall, what you look like and how big your batting stick is....honestly we don't care!)

IE.
Hello, I am Steve and new to all of this but was interested in seeing you. What would you suggest a man in my position do so that I can pass your screening requirements..

Not that hard!!! Okay now happy hunting....

jackfengshui · 01-15-2011, 08:08 AM

My standard first email:

I would like to make an 1-hour incall appointment with you in CITY on DATE at TIME. My ECCIE, E.com and P411 handle is XXX. My references are YYY (email address) and ZZZ (email address).

youngprof1978 · 01-15-2011, 08:08 AM

Not sure its that easy as a newbie, but respect is very important!

BrookeButtons · 01-15-2011, 08:15 AM

young... it is.... see the example at the end. Obviously you didn't read. Because that was a way of contacting a provider who IS new!

This is part of the problem with some men. They just don't read!! Information can be right in front of your face, yet you still ask the question when the answer is staring at you.

youngprof1978 · 01-15-2011, 08:17 AM

I clearly read it, trust me. In fact that is the model I have used when I have reached out, and it was not that easy. Speaking from experience, i'll clarify, my experience!

NormalBob · 01-15-2011, 08:31 AM

deleted.

poor attempt at humor.

"I" thought it was funny.

cnym · 01-15-2011, 08:58 AM

Bravo Brooke, sorry to hear about your Bad experiences, some guys just don't get it
Okay now happy hunting....

offshoredrilling · 01-15-2011, 09:46 AM

I hope this was not from me posting going to send a pic of me. If it was, sorry. I underestimated how low some will go.

jackfengshui · 01-15-2011, 09:56 AM

And do not emulate Brett Favre.

LynnT · 01-15-2011, 10:44 AM

See this was the issue with my "lurkers".

Send a one liner or just a bit to "candid" in an email.

They didn't do their homework, its not like BP here. We are indys and we dont have an agency to screen and look out. Its just common sense to give some info before you see a provider whether you looked at her site or not..

Look over her profile, website to see how she wants to contacted. We are not MP that take walk-ins this is a whole other ball of wax.

Us ladies are verified and we don't talk to you like trash.. This is a professional business for us like Brooke stated or hey its in my bio on my site.. Like she said Im sure you don't handle appointments or talk to your Dr, etc like that.

Obviously this hobby is well.. lets say.. "different" but is still a professional business bottom line and should be treated as such. us verified ladies treat you well.(well most there is always some bad apples)

BrookeButtons · 01-15-2011, 03:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by youngprof1978

I clearly read it, trust me. In fact that is the model I have used when I have reached out, and it was not that easy. Speaking from experience, i'll clarify, my experience!

A little off topic but I wanted to respond to your post.

Without a lot of details of who you contacted and what they responded with, my guess is your not willing to either spend a little extra cash to be screened or not wanting to part with personal information. I would suggest a memembership to date-check or p411.... it's either give a site your information, or give a lady. That's your call!

If this is the case, your never get screened by many ladies on this board.

Back though to the topic of the thread. One liners don't bother me all that much because some gents want to know if your even available before they send along info... understood. In fact an email to contact a lady doesn't have to be a book. Basic info!

I would suggest following Jack's example. Short, sweet and to the point. There should be no mentioning of the menu and for two reasons

A) your paying for the providers time and time only.
B) If you read up on reviews and so on, you would know if certian things in the general sense are available or not.

skinny1006 · 01-16-2011, 07:19 AM

Hi Brooke, I have not had the pleasure of seeing you, not yet at least. But I really appreciate your advice and professionalism. I agree, you are a business-person and professional, and in all communication you should be treated accordingly.

Guest111524 · 01-17-2011, 12:56 PM

"DELETE AND MOVE ON"!!!!!!!!

Guest111524 · 01-17-2011, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

A little off topic but I wanted to respond to your post.

Without a lot of details of who you contacted and what they responded with, my guess is your not willing to either spend a little extra cash to be screened or not wanting to part with personal information. I would suggest a memembership to date-check or p411.... it's either give a site your information, or give a lady. That's your call!

If this is the case, your never get screened by many ladies on this board.

Back though to the topic of the thread. One liners don't bother me all that much because some gents want to know if your even available before they send along info... understood. In fact an email to contact a lady doesn't have to be a book. Basic info!

I would suggest following Jack's example. Short, sweet and to the point. There should be no mentioning of the menu and for two reasons

A) your paying for the providers time and time only.
B) If you read up on reviews and so on, you would know if certian things in the general sense are available or not.

I won't even see a DateCheck or P411 member who just joined and has no vouches. Law enforcement is on DateCheck and P411. Hell they even pose as providers. BE AWARE OF ANYONE WHO ASKS A TON OF QUESTIONS AND WON'T ANSWER YOURS. BOTH CLIENTS AND SO-CALLED PROVIDERS WITH NO HISTORY ARE DANGEROUS!!!!

Laker · 01-18-2011, 12:31 PM

You ladies keep your guards up, we appreciate you for it, well other things too, but screening is critical!!