I have a question.....

[abeautifulsite]

Hello everyone. It has been a while since I have really participated on this board much however I have a question, Lately there have been a lot of inquiries where gentlemen do not have any references and they don't contact from this board. Choosing to email me directly . This actually got me thinking about something I really would like an answer to. Do you think It is safer to become a member of a reputable site such as p411 or Eccie verses not becoming a member and rolling the dice on backpage if you are trying to stay UTR? Which way do you feel safer?

[Dorian Gray]

BP & UTR do not go together in the same sentence.... IJS

[boardman]

You, and only you, have to weigh the risk with the reward in conjunction with the way you do business.
I don't think being on a site, or not, is inherently riskier or safer. Your screening has much more to do with it. Even the best screening methods put a certain amount of trust in someone other than yourself.
Sorry, it's not the best answer but it is what it is.

[abeautifulsite]

I was just curious because that is what a lot of guys are saying to me. Most are married so maybe that has something to do with it but I personally think that having to be discreet on 1 site verses multiple inquiries to providers would be the easier way to go. I myself always screen as best as I can without infringing on the privacy of others . Thank you for the info

Originally Posted by boardman

You, and only you, have to weigh the risk with the reward in conjunction with the way you do business.
I don't think being on a site, or not, is inherently riskier or safer. Your screening has much more to do with it. Even the best screening methods put a certain amount of trust in someone other than yourself.
Sorry, it's not the best answer but it is what it is.

[boardman]

Cool, now when can we hook up?

I've got reviews both on me and by me. I'm sure someone will vouch otherwise I wouldn't have gotten into past socials.

[GlobeSpotter]

How dangerous can old white men be?

[tracer]

You mean for us, not for you, correct? I think most are misreading your question and assumed you meant safest for you, but I think you are asking about the perceived safest option for a man.

I can't imagine a lady choosing to operate in this business without the security of P411 or similar.

[pyramider]

Screen, screen, screen .... see the pattern? Now post some taint photos, please.

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Screen, screen, screen .... see the pattern? Now post some taint photos, please.

Shit... I would settle for some up to date Cleaveage pics!

[pyramider]

Would you prefer cleavage with the front page of the Chronicle in the photo?

[abeautifulsite]

Sounds good Boardman- Send me A pm and we can go from there

[naughty nycole]

I would never use or trust BP. Ever. I am sure there's some normal not funky c reepers there but the facts are its not safe and you cant screen properly. Not worth the bust or the danger you might walk into.

Eccie and p4 are the way to go. ♥

[jazzguy]

Never ever ever bp. Only p411 for me. Btw.....you never answered my pm on p411 . Guess I didn't pass your screening.

[dearhunter]

You trust boardman?

[Guest072624]

P411 is THE ONLY WAY to go for me. Most of my clients PM me from there to send pre screening and appt requests. And it operates smooth as silk. Eccie is also good, minus the unnecessary bs that goes on here.