Newbie questions

[drphil123]

Did some searching on the forums but could not find the answer. Here are some simple q's:

1) What percentage of a providers clients are "regulars" ? My reason for asking, is should I feel bad for not wanting to see a provider again? Or is this the norm?

2) In an hour session, is the idea to finish your business as quickly as possible or hold out till the very end?

[Redwolf]

1) I don't know. This is for the ladies to answer.

2) I would say, "Do whatever you like." Hold out until the end if you prefer or can. Or rather finish your business and hit the road, or cuddle and talk, or get lucky with MSOG.

[Outdoorsman]

If you find the right ladies in my humble opinion, the entire session will be about you and your pleasure. So, do what you prefer and enjoy after all it is your $$ you are spending.

Me, I chose not to get caught up in what the lady is thinking or wants from me. I am there to recieve a service and I am verbal about exactly what service I am looking for. The ladies that respond to that and are fun for me I go back to and I am a regular of a few ladies. Just me though do what is fun for you.

[RachaelBenedict]

Answer to question 1 is really variable. Is a "regular" someone who repeats once in a month, a year, a 6 month span? Variety is the spice of life, and while old friends are fun, I also love experiencing new people.

My answer to #2- I have never offered one hour sessions, so I don't know how those are structured. How do you experience and define your pleasure? I don't define "finishing" by when the man's reached his highest point - it's done when our agreed upon time is up and I've had all my pleasure ... it happens naturally, whether you cuddle or talk or get a massage or please her more...

Just my 2 cents, since it seems that only guys have answered so far

Originally Posted by drphil123

Did some searching on the forums but could not find the answer. Here are some simple q's:

1) What percentage of a providers clients are "regulars" ? My reason for asking, is should I feel bad for not wanting to see a provider again? Or is this the norm?

2) In an hour session, is the idea to finish your business as quickly as possible or hold out till the very end?

[Shackleton]

1. Saw a reference to a research paper once. I think it said about half of an escort's clients are repeats (or maybe it was "regulars" whatever that is). I'm sure there were lots of limitations to the research and that that number will vary significantly from one escort to another. But, that's probably a decent approximation. I certainly know some guys who pretty much are only repeaters and others who never see the same escort twice. I don't think either is abnormal or seen as such. This is not dating--you certainly should not feel bad about not wanting to see someone again.

2. You're paying for the hour. You should do what you want to (while obviously also respecting the escort's boundaries). Personally, I like a little getting to know you time, some extended foreplay, and then taking our time BCD. That usually takes me up to the hour or so.

[Ashlyn Allure]

There is no way of telling you what percentage of a clientele would be considered regulars as every girl has her own idea of what being a regular entails. Also, some regulars are only regular for a short amount of time but visit frequently during that time. Therefore, the percentage changes on a "regular" basis..LOL.

As far as for your other question, the answer goes along the same lines as the first. Every girl is different and every girl has her own idea about how an appt. should go. Some ladies like to spend time and others like to get it over with.

I know this doesn't answer your questions directly, but I am sure most ladies will agree with me.

[Cpalmson]

As I client, I don't want to become a "regular" with a provider. I may repeat ever so often and have an ATF. Becoming a regular has certain baggage associated with it. First, you run the risk of actually having deep emotional feelings for the provider. This crosses the line of what a relationship with a provider should be, and it can be detrimental to one or both parties outside the hobby-- i.e. in the real world. Second, by seeing a provider on a regular basis, you are creating a pattern that could become too complacent and it some point in time you get caught up or simply caught. Third, after seeing the same provider over and over, you lose some of the spontaneity/excitement that comes with seeing someone different.

So to answer your 1st question, I don't think it is bad/wrong not to want to see a provider again. Personally, I would probably stop seeing a provider after 2 or 3 visits (within 6 months to a year) or ensure there is a large gap of time (i.e. 6 months to a year) if I were to see a certain provider on a regular basis.

To answer your second question, it completely depends on the type of provider you seek out/search for. Since you are on ECCIE, I'm going to take the leap of faith and guess that you are looking for a quality, GFE type of provider. When you see one of the gals who populate ECCIE, you won't have to worry about the answer to question #2. It will cum naturally (probably more than once ).