What does GFE really mean?

[iso_women]

I read this in provider's bios and it makes me wonder if that presupposes anything, especially when I see a rate quote like $150 hr, $200 hr(GFE). Is she going to do something different in that hour to make it worth more? I haven't been with that many providers but don't really understand how GFE differs from a regular encounter. I realize that no provider is going to be like a real gf but I am still curious what people think this means.

[pyramider]

Since most girlfriends torment us thinck what you will.

[Wily Klitlicker]

In the hobby world you may often see the acronymn YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary) in a review. Typically this means one of two things either the reviewer is exagerating and YMMV is a disclaimer to the rest of us when we dont get the same results. It is also meant to reflect the reality that for whatever reason a provider can treat one person differently then another from day to day.

What I am getting to is this. A GFE is not a given. It implies kissing and perhaps a bit more intimacy (BBBJ) then you might otherwise receive (no kissing, no touching, etc - you get the point). However it varies and is really at the discretion of the provider. Her GFE can vary from one day to the next depending upon whether she likes you, thinks that she will see you as a regular (cash machine), or she is just extra horny.

In my experience some GFEs were better than and others were worse than a provider who does not advertise GFE. In my opinion there is no difference. Not to confuse you but some also suggest PSE (Porn Star Experience) which in most cases adds nothing to the experience although it suggest wild positions and fantasy.

To me I have had some good GFE and some bad GFE but I never saw any correlation to paying extra for a GFE.

[Cpalmson]

When a provider gives 2 rates with GFE being an upsell, I think she's implying that the regular rate is a one and done situation. If you go GFE, she'll stay the full time and let you have as much fun as you can during the hour.

[DallasRain]

I quit trying to label a long long time ago....to me "It's All Good!!!"...lol

I guess it all dfepends on who your girlfriend is...lol
I like to think that I am Better than your girlfriend....

[victoria]

Yes of course we are better than their gf's thats why they are not with her all the time,hint.Not saying I a m better but she is free$$ we are not,so something is better about us.But sometimes they love to feel kinky with a sexy unknown woman to add the fantasy into it.

[oldmarine]

This subject has been kicked around in a lot of threads and what I have surmised is this: GFE means different things to different people. The most common GFE activities seem to include LFK and/or DFK, BBBJ, DATY and MPCFS. In a non-GFE session there is usually no kissing or DATY and it may or may not include BBBJ or CBJ. For me it means I get the above mentioned activities and an illusion of intimacy. I rely on reviews to tell me who provides those and who to pass up.

[VictoriaLove]

I like this SUBJECT!

GFE to me.... Of course I consider myself GFE...
That means I Kiss, I bbbj, and I cuddle, pillow talk, and Non Rushed.

Now being a GFE provider does not mean I offer it to everyone, I have my discretion as far as who I offer these services to.

Now if Your looking for a more explicit visit I consider that PSE which I dont offer.
And that is more along the lines of things you see in adult films.

GFE is considered a GIRLFRIEND Experience... most likely the things a girlfriend should do, not that many do it...lol! But that is what GFE is for to offer you the experience you should be getting from your S/O!

This is my opinion. Kisses!

[Outdoorsman]

If anyone ever comes up with a generic all purpose meaningful deifinition of GFE, please share it with the rest of us.

I am not a man to go into a session just for the mechanics of it, not all that pleasurable for me and I can masterbate if that's all I desire. I have no desire to walk into the room strip and go at it, get dressed and leave. I want the entire experience and this what I chose to pay for:

1) After screening is accomplished: The pre-date email flirting and build up.

2) Confirmation on day of session with excitement and more building by phone call or email.

3) A lady that is clean, without smoke breath, made up and wearing sexy outfit, when I knock on the door if incall.

4) A pleasant smile and greeting with conversation, do not count money or go to bathroom to count it. That kinda kills fantasy for me.

5) I am very verbal in telling the lady what I like, please listen and respond, sometimes I enjoy kissing and each of us disrobing the other slowly as we explore each others bodies with caresses and stroking. Other times I want to act like animals and rip clothes off tearing at each other, all depends on my mood at time, point is I will certainly tell her what I am in the mood for.

6) Has to be BBBJ, CBJ is a deal killer for me, but no worries there as I do my research prior to contact and if I see CBJ she does not get contacted by me, simple.

7) When first pop finished let me completely finish, my orgasms are much more intense than most men and yes it takes me some time to finish and come down from my intense feeling of euphoria, my thrusts slow down but do not stop and I slowly pull in and out to enjoy every last second of pleasure, same thing when HJ or BBBJ. My body tends to curl up as every muscle in my body tenses and my teeth smash down tightly and no I cannot speak at this time. So, I prefer she does not run off to bathroom right away to clean up, let me finish.

8) Post coital clean up is not important to me, I can clean my self and I will nicely and tactfully let her know that.

9) I am looking for another orgasm, but need time to recharge. I enjoy talking while we caress each other's backs, legs, etc. Non-sexual caressing just nice touching and grooming each other.

10) A second round for a one hour session is in the cards for me usually unless I want the session to go very slow and we spend 45 minutes building to one huge climax. And yes my load is very large, I have been called Peter North by some ladies and others comment on how much comes out, but again I am verbal and will explain this prior to session. So a second pop.

11) Post coital pleasantries, dressing, nice comments to each other and a good bye kiss as I head out the door.

12) Post date thank yous by email or txt, with post date flirting.

I know sounds like a lot but i feel I am paying a high fee, $$ or $$$ per hour is a large hourly rate. I have found several ladies that offer me my 12 point plan of a perfect session for reasonable rates. That is what I look for and that is my complete definition of GFE.

[Tiffany Cums]

I'm with Dallas Rain....
I do the things your girlfriend won't do....
and IF she does do them, I do them better!

[SlowHand49]

I like WBTYGFOSOE -- Way Better Than Your Girlfriend Or Significant Other Experience

[ANONONE]

This get's batted around every few months and the end result is not many agree. I think CPI300o or SP Hunter once wrote a pretty concise, but very accurate definition and perhaps they will consider reposting it--maybe it should get stickied someplace as a resource.

For me it does not necessarily consist of a particular set of menu items as much as an overall impression. I consider it GFE, if in the middle of the session and during the afterglow, I am able to forget that this was a business arrangement that I paid for.

Once the business end fades and the activity begins I want passion, or at least the illusion of passion. Plain and simple. I should walk away from the session feeling like I just had sex with my awesome friend, or got lucky and picked up an incredible woman, with notable bedskills, at the bar and we clicked and had a great time together--and then she left with no further expectation.

I should walk away humming. . .sorta like that old Eagles song: Peaceful Easy Feeling

[cucharabill]

Very interesting thread here. Glad I ran across it, since I have yet to actually participate in the organized aspect of the hobby. Still learning details and tips about it.

Have had not-so-fun experiences with agencies a number of years ago which left an unimpressed feeling about providers. Went that route three or four times, but each time it was a real turn-off. They always seemed to be in a hurry; just get the job done in order to get to the next appointment. And NOTHING even close to being anything like the GFE discussed here. Because of that, I haven't "had" in several years. This site is teaching me things I didn't know before.

Thanks everyone.

Bill

[Tiffany Cums]

I didn't know what GFE was until after a few dates and the gentlemen told me that is what I was.

I really think it is just in the way that you treat people. If you treat them will, and you truely enjoy them, that is GFE.

[DallasRain]

AMEN TIFF---WOOOHOOOOOO!!!!

slow--thats a great term!!!!

Outdoorsman..I luv ya!!!!!