Info Help Please

[Prissy Patty]

I am UTR, but one of my semi regular guys has invited to go with him to the DR. 3 days that is over 72 hours and well to say the least I could take several months off with that cash coming in. Problem.... I have heard several disturbing things about some of the goings on down there. He said we are staying at some sex retreat that I have looked up and well I am asking myself why does he want me to go. I have asked him and he says he just wants to be with me. To say the least I am suspicious. Like I said I have seen him many times and he is a great older gent. So any idea,s inf,o anything.
Thanks
Patty

[guest010313]

I have a client that likes to take trips to places like that (Hedonism specifically). He doesn't share but he likes being around naked people all the time. If you trust him go for it.





Pro-tip..........FacePic =/= UTR. That shit is radar ON. (points to anyone that knows who I just paraphrased)

[Tatiana M.]

If your suspicious about something, I'd say avoid it. It's one thing to go to the next town and be in a subpar predicament but to be in another country, thats a whole other ballpark. Sometimes in situations like this, it's best to ask the gent questions. Express your concerns and see what he says. Then after he answers all your questions, you can come to your own conclusions. But if he remains hazy and vague, I wouldn't go. I just don't think leaving the contry should be taken lightly especially if your having these uncertain thoughts.

[jframe2]

Is this the full quote-
“The most essential gift for a good writer is a built-in, shockproof shit detector. This is the writer’s radar and all great writers have had it.” -Ernest Hemingway.

Answered by
Alpaca Out of Nowhere from KC.

Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I have a client that likes to take trips to places like that (Hedonism specifically). He doesn't share but he likes being around naked people all the time. If you trust him go for it.

Pro-tip..........FacePic =/= UTR. That shit is radar ON. (points to anyone that knows who I just paraphrased)

[pyramider]

Traveling within the hobby is tricky. You need to find out exactly what his expectations are and maybe adjust your rate accordingly. Your travel partner will have all your real life information, not a good thing in the hobby. If you have any qualms about the trip ... don't go.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Traveling within the hobby is tricky. You need to find out exactly what his expectations are and maybe adjust your rate accordingly. Your travel partner will have all your real life information, not a good thing in the hobby. If you have any qualms about the trip ... don't go.

and be sure and get details worked out beforehand....AND have a backup plan {just in case}

have fun!

[guest010313]

Originally Posted by jframe2

Is this the full quote-
“The most essential gift for a good writer is a built-in, shockproof shit detector. This is the writer’s radar and all great writers have had it.” -Ernest Hemingway.

Answered by
Alpaca Out of Nowhere from KC.

Not even remotely.

[Pink Floyd]

Tread carefully my dear, tread carefully.

[LarryLegend]

What fleet said!

[Guest121613]

U mentioned semi regular. As a client who would like something like this someday, I would first do short trips with the provider first to test our comfort levels with each other before taking on an extended stays. These short trips would undoubtedly lead to know each other more personally, as the past personas would be tough to hold for more than a few hours. I wouold never ask this of a provider without testing the waters first with short trips.

[*GoddessDallas*]

TRUST YOUR GUT!
If you feel unsafe, Don't go!

WE DON'T KNOW HIM.
We have never met him.
WE are not going to be harmed if he is a psycho.

If you have only seen him sober and on YOUR TURF, that does NOT mean he is going to be okay not sober and on turf that is unfamiliar to you.

Be SAFE.

[OklahomaSooner]

Trust your first instincts

[awl4knot]

Someone thoughtfully suggested that you have a back up plan. That means you need to know about ground transportation to the airport, the airlines that fly out of the airport and their flight schedules, the cost, telephone numbers, etc. That's a lot of work.

Maybe you ought to be blunt and ask him what happens if it doesn't work out? Is he going to fly you home? Does he understand that if you leave he won't get the donation back because that's your security to get back home?

Maybe by putting these hard questions to him he'll see that isn't as simple as he thinks.

I've done one long trip with an escort. It was a disaster and I'm a pretty easy going guy. My UTR hinted that she wanted to go skiing with me out West. Ain't gonna happen - just too risky.

[Guest040313-1]

I would use caution before you venture into the DR with someone that is a semi regular client. I spend a great deal of time in the Islands chasing my fascination with Latina, but have opted out of the DR adult retreats for several reasons.
The DR is pretty much a 3rd world nation and human trafficking is an issue in the DR & Haiti, and yes it’s alive and thriving there, plus the thought of having to have armed guards outside the gates doesn’t give me a warm fuzzy feeling. Many of the resorts have a standard policy that if you leave the resort, for any reason, during your stay with them… well … your quite simply on your own, and they will not allow you to reenter the compound.
I guess to summarize, I would have to wonder why someone that’s headed to a resort where the hourly donations average $25-$30 per hour, and 24 hr overnights are routinely negotiated around $125-$150, would want to fly you down there with them.
Please don’t misunderstand, as I feel certain that there are very reputable and safe resorts there, but I would strongly recommend doing your homework, and as a couple of members have suggested … have a SOLID back up plan in place before even considering such a venture.
Hope this helps.
MGL

[BBW Katrina]

I would not go to the DR.