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alluringava · 05-28-2012, 01:32 AM

First and foremost, I would like to thank all the Eccie members here who wished me well with my injuries. They weren't as severe as I thought they were because the pain was extreme and what made me angry ( I know this sounds odd, but I as most of you know, I am a very responsible and timely escort. I am not a flake. I had to cancel all my clients who prebooked with me and that was an inconvenience to them. Yes, I realize I had a very good reason for cancelling because of injuries, but I also shouldn't have been so vain and prideful that I felt I could lug my luggage and be superwoman when it would have simply been more sensible to take an elevator or a bellhop. And I was staying at one of the most swank hotels in Dallas, which would have made a wonderful atomosphere for all of my clients.

I truly appreciate the comraderie and the friendship and sisterhood and the support of the hobbyists on this board. It means a lot to me to think that while we are all here for the obvious transactions of sex and money, it doesn't mean ( as I said in my thread about my client passing away and how I wept, and I still occasionally cry for him still) that true feelings and goodness, trust, and friendship cannot occur between escorts and clients. I have kept in touch with clients who no longer see me an escort and yet we have remained truer friends than my of my ex-civvie boyfriends in the past.

The whole industry of escorting and hobbying is it itself paradoxical in many ways. Right now I am working on an online book that I plan to publish without the expensive and troublesome, cumbersome use of agents, and since online publishing can be easier, maybe not as lucrative, I'm currently exploring the paradoxical dynamics between the men who see us, and the escorts who service the men. As well as an in-depth study of the psychology and the sociology behind the industry itself. Naturally ALL names will be changed, as will my name, but when it's done, as a special thank you to all my supporters here, I would love togive some select members a copy of that book. It's a different look that doesn't attempt to degrade or a tawdry tell all book about being an escort, and a special look at the men who have made my living a very good, successful one.

So my friends, you have no idea how much you raised my spirits when I was down and out and unable to see my special clients. I hope I DID NOT INCONVENIENCE anyone and I will be returning to Dallas after I recover. Because I'm in good shape and I take calcium and coral supplements, the doctor was amazed that I wasn't in worse shape that I was. And that on X rays, it showed my bone density was extremely strong, ( unusual for Asians) and that I would heal very quickly.

I have anothe trip planned at the end of June if I recover well enough but I shall most definitely return to Dallas and then to Austin most likely in July sometime.

Many thanks
Sincerely
AlluringAva

Eccie Addict · 05-28-2012, 03:34 AM

I would buy your book...

Hope you get better soon Ava

pyramider · 05-28-2012, 06:15 AM

Hell, EA, wants me to post a review. It does not say much about his reading tastes. But I am sure Ava's book will be a good read.

Someone needs to write a pop up book about the hobby. Thinck of the marketing ...

See Ava, I told you ... I told you you were planning a late June trip.

ben dover · 05-28-2012, 07:27 AM

So glad to hear you're doing so well! Best to you....BD

pickupkid · 05-28-2012, 08:00 AM

get well soon pickup

alluringava · 05-28-2012, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Hell, EA, wants me to post a review. It does not say much about his reading tastes. But I am sure Ava's book will be a good read.

Someone needs to write a pop up book about the hobby. Thinck of the marketing ...

See Ava, I told you ... I told you you were planning a late June trip.

A pop-up good would be fanfuckingtastic! You just gave me a great idea. We could collaborate on this !

Sweet N Little · 05-28-2012, 02:07 PM

I love miss Ava

DallasRain · 05-28-2012, 02:13 PM

you are thought of with warm wishes babe!

pyramider · 05-28-2012, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by alluringava

A pop-up good would be fanfuckingtastic! You just gave me a great idea. We could collaborate on this !

I gots lots of ideas.

NinaBrooke · 05-28-2012, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by alluringava

It means a lot to me to think that while we are all here for the obvious transactions of sex and money, it doesn't mean ( as I said in my thread about my client passing away and how I wept, and I still occasionally cry for him still) that true feelings and goodness, trust, and friendship cannot occur between escorts and clients. I have kept in touch with clients who no longer see me an escort and yet we have remained truer friends than my of my ex-civvie boyfriends in the past.

Absolutely!!! I experienced the same, and am totally with you at this point!

And the book sounds like a wonderful Idea! Are you doing Interviews? Or how do you approach the project?

Many blessings with the healing and a ((((((hug))))))!!! You are a true gem!
xox Nina

Fast Gunn · 05-28-2012, 02:37 PM

Sorry to hear about your injuries, alluringava.

But you certainly show a lot of class in how you are dealing with this setback. That will help you to heal that much quicker.

The lessons of life are often so dramatic, they make one wonder why we took the obviously wrong route that we did, but we all need to learn as we go along.

. . . Get well soon, superwoman!

. . . P.S. I want to read the first draft of your book!

burkalini · 05-28-2012, 08:24 PM

I don't know you but I have read a few of your threads. Class usually isn't obtained. It's normally your upbringing . You undoubtedly had class from day one. If I ever get in your area or you ever get in mine lets get together.

alluringava · 05-28-2012, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

I don't know you but I have read a few of your threads. Class usually isn't obtained. It's normally your upbringing . You undoubtedly had class from day one. If I ever get in your area or you ever get in mine lets get together.

You know, I've been told by a provider in Omaha that she felt I would do really well there. I never thought about going there because I didn't think there'd be business there. But she said to me, " Oh no, I think you would do really well." Plus, she said Omaha was a city that wasn't really affected by the downturn in the economy and that it was a thriving city, and that housing prices have actually gone up there. I'd definitely consider Omaha in the future. She called it a hidden gem of a city because there's a lot to see and do, but not a lot of people make it their touring destination.