Quit hobby

[Asiancajun]

How do u quit hobbying. I find it so hard to quit. It’s worst than giving up drinking n cig.

[FBSMLUVR]

If I had the answer, I’d quit drinking & smoking cigs.

[TheClipse]

Figure out why you’re doing this in the first place and then address that issue.

[Anonymous01]

It's all related. Years ago they discovered a gene variation that pointed towards addictive behavior - of all types.


Never smoked.


Never drank alcohol.


Gone for decades without the "hobby" and miss it less and less as time goes on.


Guess I don't have the "right" genes.

[Fizley]

I hear you, and completely understand.

Everyone in the hobby has to grapple with this decision your making. I made it in 2023 when two of my favs left and married. I tired to find a new provider I wanted to see but after a sting of bad experiences + rising provider rates beyond what my highly educated attorney makes, I left.

I'm lucky in that one of my favs occasionally will make time for me, and I do the civi dating thing here and there.

But to me, the hobby prices have not kept up with wage inflation and the experiences all have been Subpar at best.

[pxmcc]

if your income drops for one reason or another, your problem is solved..

otherwise, you got all this info about some fun wack shit that goes on in the hobby bcd. civvie gals will pick up on your bad boy vibes. if you want to make the hobby work for you, surf that shit into some naughty civvie shit bcd. gals can sense when you got a pile of bad-boy tricks up your sleeve. for example, they know i'm trouble without even a word having been spoken. and all that in a freakin coffee shop..

yolo..

[Michael8219]

We all may have to rely on bad boy vibes soon….

Unless of course el presidente can’t put tariffs on my amps. Their rates will drop. I asked my retail foodie how business was the past 2 days and she looked very worried.

Where’d I put my old penthouse? And why are the pages stuck together? Chandler!

[marathon2010]

Might have to change your ideology, depending if married or single and dating. Basically the SO has to fulfill the gap that hobby world did. Or/And find some serious real hobbies to replace it. Easier said than done.

Curious if the hobby changes most people's patience in the real dating world? Hmm..

[majorjones]

Asking this question to a bunch of degenerate, sex addicts is probably a futile endeavor.

[Sextion]

Very true ^^

But in all honesty Asian. The second your real life priorities are overshadowed. Ie: pinching Pennie’s on bills because you want to see providers, going into any sort of debt, chasing different girls just to get notches on your belt, while cancelling real world things and or responsibilities. This is the tip of the iceberg for reasons to stop. There are much more though. If you can relate to anything above or even close to it. Do yourself a favor and cut yourself off cold turkey. If you can’t “afford” this hobby parallel to how much you “need” to see girls. It’s better to just stop completely. Until you figure your shit out or make more money. It really just depends on you. There’s no secret to this. And if you try to “slowly stop” it won’t work. Maybe if you treat yourself every 6 months or twice a year to a “good” or “higher quality” girl then there’s no point in trying to try anything to stop. It just needs to be done period. Only you can do that though. There’s no secret to that or how to.

[Asiancajun]

Financially I’m ok. I just see them just to see them. It’s like a routine.

[winn dixie]

All you have to do is stop seeing hoes. Will power

[Madison of Houston]

Originally Posted by Asiancajun

How do u quit hobbying. I find it so hard to quit. It’s worst than giving up drinking n cig.

I'm selfishly hoping you don't quite, sorry, lol.

[Demolition]

The hobby is the hotel California. "You can check out any time you like but you can never leave..."

[anandaman]

There is such a thing as Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)... similar to AA... meetings that help addicts break the cycle.... you can search for a meeting near you...

A'Man