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pickupkid · 06-01-2011, 07:13 PM

I often read a review of lovely lady..of her great performance..only to find a a so so performance...is this due to having a bad day or an embellished review of the
provider. So my question is do you embellish your reviews ? I would rather have a short truthful review than a story, what are your thoughts?

AdventureAdams · 06-01-2011, 07:43 PM

every provider has a day when she is not a hundred percent on her game or met a guy she didn't mesh with. I think overall scores and averages or more important than a stray so so or no good review

Chica Chaser · 06-01-2011, 07:53 PM

Consistency across several reviews over time is the key. At least it is for me. I don't particularly care about one single review in a line of others, either good or bad.

shorty · 06-01-2011, 07:55 PM

Performance of a provider is all in the eye of the hobbyist. Some hobbyist will click better with some provider's than others. It's really a matter of personal preference for the hobbyist.

Cpalmson · 06-01-2011, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Consistency across several reviews over time is the key. At least it is for me. I don't particularly care about one single review in a line of others, either good or bad.

Well-said.

RickForFun · 06-01-2011, 11:39 PM

Several months back I had a session with a great lady and I was off. It had been a long hot day and I was not really up for playing. I had set the appointment so I kept it. Was it wonderful for me? No it was not. Did the lady do a great job? Yes she did and I really liked her. It was not her fault my ass was dragging by the time I got to her. I have had better sessions with ladies not as good as she. It was all on me so she received a glowing review. I stated the facts and "played" it as I would have if I had been on my game.

Still Looking · 06-02-2011, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by pickupkid

I often read a review of lovely lady..of her great performance..only to find a a so so performance...is this due to having a bad day or an embellished review of the
provider. So my question is do you embellish your reviews ? I would rather have a short truthful review than a story, what are your thoughts?

That is what is supposed to be happening! Truthful Reviews! And the Show Cases should have real and current pictures also right?

Sweet N Little · 06-02-2011, 07:58 AM

Alot of things come into factor on how things go, he could have an off day, she could as well. I think it depends on how the two connect mainly. Sometimes expectations from reading reviews are set so high that things could seem "so so" to you. I always try to give 100% as most ladies do.

Willen · 06-02-2011, 08:34 AM

As it happens, I just did a review of a non-spectacular session with a generally very well-reviewed provider. In it I stressed that I was nowhere near the top of my game, so that the quality of session was by no means entirely and solely her responsibility. None the less, it was what it was. I hope no one overreacts to my review. On the other hand, I also hope it shows that when I do say I had a fantatstic time readers can take that as honest.

Shayla · 06-04-2011, 11:20 AM

I would say that it could be both. However, your expectations could be "too" hopeful but in most cases I would say it's a chemistry thing or lack of enthusiasm.

Old-T · 06-04-2011, 12:10 PM

I think this is a good question, but one without a single answer.

1. I think the biggest YMMV issue is caused by the guy not doing his homework. He gets fixated on what a lady looks like (let's assume the photos are accurate) and forgets to read the rest of the information: what's her place like, what's her attitude, what's on the menu, etc. Then, when those don't match what he was looking for the session is less than what it was for other reviewers. I can't count the number of times I've heard a guy complain, "She was hot, but she only did CBJ (or she smokes, or she ..... )--when every review of her says CBJ and she lists CBJ on her web site. If BBBJ was critical to his enjoyment then this was a match destined to be less than stellar.

The flip side of that is when a lady reads what a guy describes ans knows she's a mismatch, but sees him anyway. Or if her advertizing is false, either explicitly or by inference. Then she is shocked when a guy is less than pleased with "surprises" during the session: she airbrushes out the ink, or she advertizescertain activities but doesn't mention on her ad that they are extra.

2. Advanced notice. I think any last minute appointment with a lady I hve not seen before is a higher risk. This business is always part theatrical performance on a first date, and when you give an actress less time to prepair her role she may not perform as well. This is similar to a guy who really wants her to wear fishnets but doesn't say so, then complains she didn't. this should be less of an issue with repeat visits if some friendship has developed, or if the guy is only looking for a fast 99% physical encounter, but can be a major issue for someone seeking a longer GFE attitude. It allows the right music, right mood, etc. and props DO influence the patron's enjoyment of the show.

3. For me, I do most my playing while I'm on travel, and I HATE setting up a date for the day I arrive in town. The plane can be late, I could have had a stressful trip, etc. That puts me in a poor frame of mind which too often results in a sub par session. Again, this is not as important with a lady I already know very well, as she understands and she can often adjust her tune to compensate. One lady in particular is great at just that, and she has taken it upon herself to CX out dinner arrangements, cook up something simple, and turn our night-on-the-town into a home-cooked meal and long, destressing massage. But that doesn't work for first dates.

As to your last question: I always believe in honesty in a review. If I feel the date went poorly because of me, I won't write the review--it would not be fair to her or to readers.

Mature Companion · 06-04-2011, 12:15 PM

You sure the So So lackluster performance was ALL her doing and NOT the guy?

There's are just as man men who are lame in the bedroom and lack in the performance department, that a gal can only do so much to please him when he's doing nothing on his part to help enhance the date to a more fulfilling & exciting time. I call those types of men, a dead fuck!

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Originally Posted by pickupkid

I often read a review of lovely lady..of her great performance..only to find a a so so performance...is this due to having a bad day or an embellished review of the
provider. So my question is do you embellish your reviews ? I would rather have a short truthful review than a story, what are your thoughts?