I'm one of the fortunate (or maybe not) that have no SO and I'm self employed. Text, phone call or PM on here, makes me no diff.
I only have a primary cell. My son (he's 33) and my business pard both have instructions to destroy my phone/lap top when I croak.
I'm way too fuckin paranoid to have ever done this when I was married

I would most assuredly have gotten caught.
I have probably...200 (at least) providers number' in my cell phone all over the US and Canada, and each of them have first name, last name (pro) and city. I delete the Ladies I didn't enjoy