Over the last few years, I have had providers I see regularly, and I some I have stopped seeing. I think there are definite pros and cons. The pros are great! You get to know each other, become more friendly, sessions improve, becoming more direct and intimate, and more passionate.
The cons, well, kinda suck. There is an expectation of forgiveness. A girl I had never seen before, who tried to reschedule on me several times, I would just walk away. A lady I had seen regularly may try to pull the same thing with the expectation that our prior relationship would allow it. Also, I have had feelings get hurt when one provider didn't respond in a timely manner, and I moved on to scratch my current itch. She expected me to wait for her to get back, and was hurt when I didn't. She got so angry she put me on her DNS list, where I stay till today.
Generally, I stick with one or 2 faithful ones, until they become less so, then I move on.
Although, I still have an UTR lady that I see from time to time, and it's like hooking up with an old girlfriend, we chat, laugh, and catch up. Then we fuck like bunnies and laugh some more.
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