Meeting ladies at socials!

[Iron Butterfly]

So I try and attend as many of the local socials as I can. I like to meet ladies that I have seen on the board or heard of. Meeting a lady first in a social environment is for me the best way to chose a good play mate. I can see her live and in living color, get a sense of her personality and if we would be compatible. Not to mention the big turn of of being with a lady you previously have meet, conversed and flirted with.

I wish more ladies would go to socials. It really is a good way for both monger and providers to see what they are like. I also find the information from other mongers shared is also an invaluable resource.

Ladies do you normally block a time out when you go to socials leaving the possibility of a date (session) after with a monger you might connect with at a social. I haven't done that.....yet but would love to. I have seen providers later that I have meet at socials and those sessions were always amazing. Getting to talk with a provider I have seen is also lots of fun and sessions afterwards would be great too.

So what do you think about socials? What would make them more accessible to you leading to more ladies attending?

IB

[Austinwoohoo]

Me thinks that the providers using their 'talents' for cash emergencies, hard times, vacation funds, kids back to school shopping, etc probably aren't as involved with the site and aware of said socials while those that are full time professionals and this being their primary source of income are motivated to attend realizing the opportunity to increase their consistent client base. And, i'm guessing the part-time providers (including those providers that aren't full time Austinites, only here for a week here or there or visiting) make it seem like only a few providers attend. It would be interesting to know what percentage of the full time Austin professionals attend.

[ynot_y]

I agree with you IB wish more would go !

[ffireman]

Well just like I do you gentlemen can also invite as well just pass it alone to CK for the info and blessing

[ynot_y]

Yes i do, this and thanks CK for all you do

[Cat in the Hat]

If the habit they are working to feed is being me met then a social serves no purpose.

Face it. The right age and look in an ad generates more business than any of them really need.

I attended some of these meet and greets in another market and the quality of the ladies present left a lot to be desired.

[Iron Butterfly]

Originally Posted by Cat in the Hat

If the habit they are working to feed is being me met then a social serves no purpose.

Face it. The right age and look in an ad generates more business than any of them really need.

I attended some of these meet and greets in another market and the quality of the ladies present left a lot to be desired.

Well cat I disagree with this. I have met some smoking hot ladies at the socials, even the type you will only partake in. To say that only the quality that attend is less to be desired is a comment from one that is not involved in the community part of this hobby, hell I am one of the less desired mongers and I go and have been well received. Bad cat, bad cat.

IB

[Aphrodite]

Originally Posted by Cat in the Hat

If the habit they are working to feed is being me met then a social serves no purpose.

Face it. The right age and look in an ad generates more business than any of them really need.

I attended some of these meet and greets in another market and the quality of the ladies present left a lot to be desired.

Iron Butterfly - he is referring to the term that he uses to describe the women he is referring to i.e. the older and, in his opinion, the less attractive ones. Do the initials OIO ring a bell? He originally created that term under his other handle…

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[playingnthedark]

Nice thread and I have to agree IB. I enjoy the meet and greets.

[Little Monster]

I love the socials, very useful. Met & banged quite a few cuties I wouldn't have if weren't for them. Have also scratched a few off the list I was on the fence with until I saw them in person.

[RetiredNinja]

I enjoy the socials. Personality is sometimes a difficult thing to judge just from an online presence, especially if a person doesn't post much, and I've met a few ladies I wasn't sure about that won me over in person. I've also met some UTR ladies that I wouldn't have even known about otherwise. I really appreciate the work CK puts into them.

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[quzi]

I've always been a fan of CK's socials, even if it's a bit more open than some would like. There's some pretty epic ones that I've attended in Vegas where there are literally hundreds of hot providers (local and visiting) that you couldn't possibly talk to all of them over the course of an evening. Love all these socials, so fucks up my list of providers to see every time.

[BiancaBonVivant]

Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

Ladies do you normally block a time out when you go to socials leaving the possibility of a date (session) after with a monger you might connect with at a social. I haven't done that.....yet but would love to. I have seen providers later that I have meet at socials and those sessions were always amazing. Getting to talk with a provider I have seen is also lots of fun and sessions afterwards would be great too.

So what do you think about socials? What would make them more accessible to you leading to more ladies attending?

IB

I think you know I'm all about the social aspects.

I prefer clients who appreciate my company, which they understand cannot be replaced by another set of holes and a pulse. My clients have a lot going on in their brains, generally, and they need someone who can keep up mentally, while simultaneously draining their balls.

I sell my personality, or shades of it, no matter what I do. It's what keeps people interested in me, and it leads to longer-term relationships that foster mutual respect.

I've been escorting off and on for over a decade. I know what I like to do, I know which clients I like to see, and I price and advertise myself accordingly. A big factor in that is the social events.

I'm in the process of making more marketing videos, which I know for a fact are the #1 factor in deciding to see me, but the socials have done the job while I upgraded my computer and camera equipment.

I've never gone to a social expecting to make a date for that evening, but it has happened.

So long as they stay at the 2x/month frequency, I anticipate attending all of them. I like meeting the ladies, as well. The camaraderie, and the ability to speak openly about what I do for a living is probably the single most important factor for me, however.

[Loxly]

Originally Posted by RetiredNinja

I enjoy the socials. Personality is sometimes a difficult thing to judge just from an online presence, especially if a person doesn't post much, and I've met a few ladies I wasn't sure about that won me over in person. I've also met some UTR ladies that I wouldn't have even known about otherwise. I really appreciate the work CK puts into them.

Well said and echoes my sentiments as well. The only thing that might make these better is for folks to actively mingle. CK generally is busy labeling folks so it's really up to the rest of us to drive the introductions. I try to get to everyone on my own and, if needed, drag a newbie around with me.

Ladies like Bianca are good at being "social butterflies". Doesn't make much sense to attend and then sit in a corner. Maybe we need "Party Mods" to drive the mixing.