The "Screamer" Vs The "Moaner" and Dirty Talk

[Becky GoodHead]

So, I personally am not much of a screamer. I do moan yes. Obviously i enjoy sex! and it feels great! but a lot of guys seem to assume that i'm not enjoying myself because i'm not loud and screaming.

Ladies, are most of you screamers or moaners?
Gentlemen, do you have a preference? Is it a turn off if a girl isn't loud in bed?

Another thing, I am not good or experienced in Dirty Talk AT ALL. I Suck at it! but the men seem to LOVE IT. and dont get me wrong, i love hearing the dirty talk, it's most certainly a turn on. I dont know why i cant get a hold on the dirty talk.

How do you guys feel about a girl that doesnt dirty talk?
and Ladies, are most of you dirty talkers?


Just looking for some feedback guys. Thanks!

[knotty man]

i had a provider tell me "fuck me like youd fuck your own hand !"
so i turned off the lights, crawled under the covers and stuffed a pillow in my mouth so my mom and dad wouldnt hear me moan .

[stevejones1969]

From my experience there are not a lot of ladies who talk dirty or at least not really dirty. Saying you want me to fuck you or " oh fuck that feels good, yes, yes oh fuck" does not count. I want to hear you tell me to fuck that pussy, oooh pound me please, harder, fuck, harder, shit fuck me baby, yea, yes, come on fuck that pussy, fuuuuck more more, harder, shit give it to me, damn oh that feels good, yea, yes, yes, yes FUCK that pussy, slap my ass and give it to me, damn your dick feels good,..........you know that kind of mouth. And yes, I think most guys enjoy the talk. Makes em feel like they are something special, and lets face it, most of us are not. That is my take anyway.

[Guest110715-3]

Time for your next lesson, Becky.

[JennsLolli]

Eh, I'm not much of a dirty talker...or maybe I am sometimes. Apparently I don't give it much thought, because it turns out that giving it too much thought usually ends up in some jumbled mad-lib of dirty words and when I accidentally mix female adjectives with male parts the PSE IOP pops real fast. Not only that, but the interaction sounds programed/fake to me when I just throw out "fuck me with that big dick...you make me so wet...that cock feels fucky, Papi." Aaaand I'm picky as fuck on the dirty talk I like to hear and assume others are just as nuanced as me. I communicate in bed, often times verbally, just not the basic porn script shit.

Catch my eye, fuck me 20 times, and throw me in bed at 3am after a week+ of all suck and no fuck and I might make you blush. Or I might make you feel weird. I have been known to say ridiculously weird, sorta filthy stuff in a matter-of-fact way. That works on the boys that can handle a confused boner or have grown accustomed to it to the point of finding it endearing, but I'm willing to bet that it puts other boys' boners to rest.

[Guest110715-3]

2 things not to say:
“I haven’t fucked like that since grade school!"
and
“I want to have your abortion.”

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by 7Dust

Time for your next lesson, Becky.

lol 7 dust ....yes indeed

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by stevejones1969

From my experience there are not a lot of ladies who talk dirty or at least not really dirty. Saying you want me to fuck you or " oh fuck that feels good, yes, yes oh fuck" does not count. I want to hear you tell me to fuck that pussy, oooh pound me please, harder, fuck, harder, shit fuck me baby, yea, yes, come on fuck that pussy, fuuuuck more more, harder, shit give it to me, damn oh that feels good, yea, yes, yes, yes FUCK that pussy, slap my ass and give it to me, damn your dick feels good,..........you know that kind of mouth. And yes, I think most guys enjoy the talk. Makes em feel like they are something special, and lets face it, most of us are not. That is my take anyway.

i appreciate that more than you know! i had no clue what to say when dirty talking...but now i do. thanks to you! i'll let you know how it works out hahah

[Becky GoodHead]

Originally Posted by JennsLolli

Eh, I'm not much of a dirty talker...or maybe I am sometimes. Apparently I don't give it much thought, because it turns out that giving it too much thought usually ends up in some jumbled mad-lib of dirty words and when I accidentally mix female adjectives with male parts the PSE IOP pops real fast. Not only that, but the interaction sounds programed/fake to me when I just throw out "fuck me with that big dick...you make me so wet...that cock feels fucky, Papi." Aaaand I'm picky as fuck on the dirty talk I like to hear and assume others are just as nuanced as me. I communicate in bed, often times verbally, just not the basic porn script shit.

Catch my eye, fuck me 20 times, and throw me in bed at 3am after a week+ of all suck and no fuck and I might make you blush. Or I might make you feel weird. I have been known to say ridiculously weird, sorta filthy stuff in a matter-of-fact way. That works on the boys that can handle a confused boner or have grown accustomed to it to the point of finding it endearing, but I'm willing to bet that it puts other boys' boners to rest.

Jen I LOVE IT!!!! LOL You sound like a good time honey

[snkapeek]

Originally Posted by 7Dust

2 things not to say:
“I haven’t fucked like that since grade school!"
and
“I want to have your abortion.”

Quite possibly one of the best moments of a movie filled with great moments.

[RALPHEY BOY]

its like Goldilocks for me,

I like it 'just right' to much is annoying and not enough is boring..

[RandB fan]

giggling during sex now that's a turn off

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

its like Goldilocks for me,

I like it 'just right' to much is annoying and not enough is boring..

+1

I once had a double with a girl and I was like:
SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP! Your're breaking my concentration.
OMG her responses sounded soooooo contrived. ANNOYING!

I'm more of a moaner and a low-key dirty talker.

Some of my faves are to subtlety say things like:

"your dick feels so good in this tight pussy."
"this pussy is so wet for you"
"you like your dick in-between these big black titties?"
"give me all of you cum"

Who knows what I'll say, It's just whatever sensation I am indulging in at the moment.

Like REB said, I'd keep it to a minimum and make sure it's what your feeling in the moment so your statement has conviction.

Happy hobbying everyone!

[Guest110715-3]

Most of the time it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

[illuminati]

I guess I don't give the ladies much to scream or moan about as they tend to be quite...