What to put in your opening text?

[everix1992]

I've had quite a few instances lately where I'll find someone on Tryst or STG or something and shoot them a text and never hear anything back. Maybe this is more common than I'm expecting and I'm getting in my own head for nothing, but it has me wondering what everyone else puts in their opening text to a provider?

Obviously, if they mention specific info in their ad they want then that's a gimme but other than that I've always kept it simple and basically said "Hey, saw your ad on X and wanted to see if we might be able to set up an appointment/visit/whatever". Maybe I need to revise my gameplan there though

[MarcellusWalluz]

Don't take it personal.
Use hello instead of hey, include some of your stats & maybe say you want to get to know her better. Some won't respond if it sounds too much like a transaction.
There really is no standard, some just don't respond at all & some will go as far as giving their address then just ghost.
Try contacting them again after a few weeks.

[Wile E Coyote]

If they advertise and you like what they have to say, look at what they are telling you to do their screening, then introduce yourself that way. Sending a provider "Sup?" is not going to do anything for you. We are all adults here, well most of us are, some are still mentally challenged.

There are far too many providers out there who not only want your business, but also your repeat business to waste your time on providers who think they are doing you a favor by taking your money.

Get to know the providers by the way they talk to you one on one, their reviews by multiple different guys and most importantly, the way they carry their persona on the boards. Those things more than any ad they post tells you if you want to see that provider or not.