Please share your thoughts… clients & providers

[Best Kept Secretary]

What is one change you would make to improve the industry, helping it gain greater legitimacy and social acceptance?

[Foxtrotdancer]

I don't really believe this will ever be accepted, simply because what woman honestly wants their husband having sex with another woman. This will always be a hopefully well kept secret. What we need is more of you. Right now the industry is proliferated with basically street walkers. More professional women, providing great service at a reasonable donation. There are some cruises that are about 600 dollars right, so basically ladies have to understand in some circumstances, you are literally providing a vacation for these dudes. Nails should be on point, toes, lingerie

If you are at 300 or above, Incall should be anywhere decent to nice and not a motel. Just to name a few. By the way you are gorgeous and from what I hear from my hobby circle, you provide extraordinary service. I will be reaching out soon.

[Busty]

I wished it was more exclusive, similar to a private adult club via invitation only by a vetted member. The meetings/meet& greet takes place at an actual adult club for our safety.

That way there is no deception & you can actually see someone in real time.

Forums have too much exposure

[R.M.]

I think there's a great need for a more improved black list where we can share information on bad clients.
Especially the dangerous violent ones. And for the new ladies coming what to expect from clients that pray on inexperienced ladies.

[Anonymous01]

It will never happen in the US of A (politicians hate competition), but legalization or decriminalization in other countries makes the hobby safer and more civil for everyone. (Yes, I do the majority of my "hobbying" in other countries.)

[Brooke Wilde]

Maybe a little off base but what would improve things for me would be ...

If gents followed my driving directions & location instructions exactly as I send them. They are very clear yet so often they do what they want to do only causing confusion as to their location & wasted time.

[Unique_Carpenter]

All good ideas, but remember, guys, like dogs, are easily distrac ... oh, stockings.

[MarcellusWalluz]

Originally Posted by Best Kept Secretary

What is one change you would make to improve the industry, helping it gain greater legitimacy and social acceptance?

It will never be socially accepted regardless of how legitimate it may become.

[Best Kept Secretary]

Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

It will never be socially accepted regardless of how legitimate it may become.

I would think there is a spectrum to it. Tattoos are legitimately regulated yet there was a time when society deemed tattoos to be unacceptable which is not the case present day as much as it was 20 years ago. #tattoedprofessionals

[Best Kept Secretary]

Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

Maybe a little off base but what would improve things for me would be ...

If gents followed my driving directions & location instructions exactly as I send them. They are very clear yet so often they do what they want to do only causing confusion as to their location & wasted time.

Not off at all- that was one of the solutions I had in mind; follow directions. For the first time today I had a client follow directions to the T. I’ve been in this industry for 14 years.

[Best Kept Secretary]

Originally Posted by R.M.

I think there's a great need for a more improved black list where we can share information on bad clients.
Especially the dangerous violent ones. And for the new ladies coming what to expect from clients that pray on inexperienced ladies.

I am working on it DM about my up and coming provider only forum I am launching soon if interested. #companionconnect for providers by providers including client reviews, resources, classifieds, events, professional services, retirement resources, family services hosted on an overseas dedicated server. Also, an ecourse hosted on open source servers that will introduce a new industry standard with issued certificate of completion free of charge courtesy of a SW friendly nonprofit organization ��. Not a “how to” course but simply put “finishing school”.

Dream Big, think simple, work smarter, play harder.

[HTXGentleman]

Not all men in the hobby are married, and honestly a husband cheating on his wife will be looked down upon whether it’s through the hobby or not, so that really has nothing to do with raising the legitimacy of being a sex worker.

Also, 300 seems awfully low to be expecting a super nice incall. How many clients would the provider need to see a month to keep that nice incall? I think the hobby would be better served if the men would stop expecting lobster and caviar for the price of a taco, but that is probably further away from happening than the entire industry being more socially accepted

Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

I don't really believe this will ever be accepted, simply because what woman honestly wants their husband having sex with another woman. This will always be a hopefully well kept secret. What we need is more of you. Right now the industry is proliferated with basically street walkers. More professional women, providing great service at a reasonable donation. There are some cruises that are about 600 dollars right, so basically ladies have to understand in some circumstances, you are literally providing a vacation for these dudes. Nails should be on point, toes, lingerie

If you are at 300 or above, Incall should be anywhere decent to nice and not a motel. Just to name a few. By the way you are gorgeous and from what I hear from my hobby circle, you provide extraordinary service. I will be reaching out soon.

[Best Kept Secretary]

Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

I don't really believe this will ever be accepted, simply because what woman honestly wants their husband having sex with another woman. This will always be a hopefully well kept secret. What we need is more of you. Right now the industry is proliferated with basically street walkers. More professional women, providing great service at a reasonable donation. There are some cruises that are about 600 dollars right, so basically ladies have to understand in some circumstances, you are literally providing a vacation for these dudes. Nails should be on point, toes, lingerie

If you are at 300 or above, Incall should be anywhere decent to nice and not a motel. Just to name a few. By the way you are gorgeous and from what I hear from my hobby circle, you provide extraordinary service. I will be reaching out soon.

Thank you so much for the kind words. To clarify, I was more referring to SWOPusa.org civil rights campaigns not so much concerned with infidelity. I made the post to advocate for the ladies. Although I did ask for the men’s thoughts as well, it’s kind of an understood concept that any behavior morally questionable would not be included. Don’t ask. Don’t tell. Specifically not posted about.