Former provider meeting in Public.

[royamcr]

Soooo. A former (at least I think former) provider runs a social group locally. I've been meaning to stop by and say SAAAAPRISEE!!! But I'd be discreet about it. I know her heart would skip a few beats when seeing someone in public that she formerly saw a few times. So far I've been busy with other things when they have meetups or working so haven't been able to join. But maybe one day I just might. What ya think about the situation?

I won't give her real name or hobby names she used so no need to PM. But if you know you know....

[woody4eroticfun]

I ran into a former provider years ago, she was working checkout at a retail store. I had my son with me, so couldn't say much. She recognized me, I recognized her, we both handled it well. We all have private lives, I wouldn't want a provider surprising me somewhere public.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Surprises are out.
Discreet acknowledgements are in for purely coincidental things.

[Roboz]

Concur 100% UC. No many of us want a provider to drop into our RW situations on purpose

[yourdesire]

I say she'll respect and don't surprise her

[bikebryan]

I ran into two providers I had seen many times when I worked retail in the DC area. In both instances, we just subtly nodded at each other and move on - and in both cases, we had good laughs about it the next time we saw each other.

[royamcr]

It's been a few years, she may not even remember. It's a group thing they do frequently. She has to know there is a possibility of someone she's seen before showing up. If I go sometime I won't play it as a surprise, just go hang out and see how things go. For all I know she might see a few guys still under the radar. It is mostly older people that I generally wouldn't hang out with, but I'm getting up there in age so not that far off.

[Oldguylooking]

I had one provider show up at my place of employment, I disappeared until she left. Was my mistake in previously taking her to the place of an evening when all employees had left for the day. Did have a wonderful time in my office.

[Joeblow1983]

I own a bar
A super smoking hot provider was a musician and playing at my bar one night������
Embarrassing

[royamcr]

So, it finally happened. The meet up group she is a part of posted they would be at my regular hang out. Saw her there with the group and went up to their table after it thinned out a little. Started up a little conversation and she said you look familiar. lol I kinda blew it off and said must recognize me from a neighboorhood social app. She said that must be it. Had a little chat with the table then went off to get something to eat. No harm done. I know she probably knows where she's seen me before but the rest of the table doesn't know about her past. She has to know being out in public there is a chance meeting with a former encounter.

[Kilgore.Trout]

I had a chance meeting with my regular girl one morning when were both in the same doctors’ waiting room. It took me a minute to place where are knew her from then - bam! Rush of excitement. We didn’t acknowledge each other but DM’d her after. It made our next meeting even hotter.

[DallasRain]

I was at the mall with my grandson the other day..when I got home I had an email from a guy (who ive never net) that said " I saw you at the mall"

[Star Hollowday]

Yeah its totally realistic that someone you've met BCD will see you in public. Like Dallas I'll get back and see messages saying "I just saw you". A few times I have been out with my girls and waiter/waitress says such and such or that table or a gent paid for yall bill etc. I'll get a message from a hobbyist saying it was them that did it.

[Audrey Astor]

Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

I ran into a former provider years ago, she was working checkout at a retail store. I had my son with me, so couldn't say much. She recognized me, I recognized her, we both handled it well. We all have private lives, I wouldn't want a provider surprising me somewhere public.

You’ve always been a real gentleman.

[Enchanterlingum]

I once ran into someone in this thread in OP a few years back. Apparently, we both like junk stores. I didn't say anything because I don't know who is around and didn't want to put anyone in an awkward spot. I did the same thing with my coworkers before I retired. I'm getting too old to kick a jealous husband's ass.