Ok first off we all know this is a business transaction and what is written here is all fantasy of overactive adult minds.
After the last couple of weeks, I have been noticing a lot of drama and emotions in some of the post, whether I started them or others have started them.
One thing I realized is while this is a business transaction, that the parties involved have emotions and feelings. They are not just another notch on the bedpost.
Sure i have been guilty of falling for a provider or getting infatuated but you know what when you are intimate even though it is business, your emotions and feelings get brought into the equation, unless your dead or not even human and devoid of any feelings.
We as humans are emotional beings, some are more emotional than others and some even though they say are not affected by the actions of others, they are.
Whether it be a bad review on a lady, a nc/ns alert, provider on provider crime drama or for whatever reason rating a post the lowest you can give it.
Their are several times, I just want to give up and quit this board and hobby because of the jealousy, back biting, double crossing and lies that go on. It is so hard to keep straight.
Just remember we put ourselves out their in this hobby whether you are a provider or client and emotions and feelings can be hurt. These ladies are not just another slab of meat, another notch on your bedpost or bragging rights in the locker room or wherever you tell of your conquest.
Sure I have been butt hurt and disappointed in this hobby anybody that has done it for a certain amount of time is affected in some form or fashion unless you just don't give a flying monkeys ass.
For me I am one way on the board and totally different in person and the ladies that I have chosen to act with have real emotions and real feelings. How do I know, I have been at the end of their wrath and just sat their and let them vent.
So do you think emotions and feelings belong in the hobby? Or are you so callous or jealous you do not care?
When it starts affecting the ladies business than that should be a wake up call to say hey maybe these ladies are human after all and should be treated with a little more decency and respect. Granted other providers can be jealous to the point they post false reviews, post false ads to hurt others business.
You know what their are plenty of fish in the sea and no need for competition in the hobby. If you do not like a provider or a provider does not like another provider or whatever else combination you can think of, stop and ask yourself how you would feel if someone messed with your business.
For some ladies this is their career that they will do until they retire or no longer can do it anymore. Others this is just a launching pad to a brighter future that does not rely on the hobby for income.
Just the ramblings of a gentleman who cares about those that he is with or has been with.
So peace and remember, treat others as you want to be treated and Karma is a bitch and her bite stings.
Emotions, feelings and the hobby
