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Originally Posted by ztonk
Not risky for both parties...
What risk does the guy take for not being screened?
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If the lady does not screen she does not care about her safety so she sure and the hell doesn't care about yours. She will let any dude come over just because they say their are safe. That means they only care about one thing and that's money.
Not to mention if she will see any dick that will throw money her way she is probably not protecting herself in other ways as well.. ie healthwise being one.
If she doesn't screen she is letting any Sam, Bob and Joe over to her place. These guys could be cops, rapists, stalkers, murders, "partiers", crazy ex's, a previous clients crazy wife etc.
Maybe some dont care or have to worry, but these all do happen that's why the smart ladies screen to reduce the risks of these happening. Screening doesnt always mean these things dont happen. However they greatly reduce the chances and if something life or death happens you will at least have some info about who it was that hurt you.
1. She could have a stalker that's making her life hell. He books under an alias, fake number, handle. He shows up but not for the appointment. She doesnt think anything of it besides a ncns. Meanwhile he's parked outside. Writing down the license plate numbers of all clients coming and going, he could show up unannounced, knock on the door while yall are in session..etc
2. She didn't screen, a crazy wife out for revenge contacted her and shows up making a scene, drawing attention to that's ladies incall. Wife is screaming calling her a hooker.. prostitute what not. Now all eyes are on who comes and goes. Neighbors are nosey now, they make complaints about guys coming and going, attention is drawn, cops gets called, they take notice to the amount of traffic...they stop and question why you were there.. etc.
3. A crazy ex/bf created a bait account. He sets up an appointment shows up and watches the guys who come and go. Is angry, confronts the guys who are coming and going, creates a scene, he now has your car info, a simple license check he has your personal info.. etc can mess your whole life up with your wife, job, home, kids etc. All because you are dicking his girl and he didn't know she was a hooker. Some SO'S, spouses, ex's are crazy, what if messes with your car, tall get physical..etc. are you going to call the cops, make a report and have to explain to a gf or wife why you were at so and so hotel or complex and why this dude targeted you?
4. A drunk/"partied" out client doesn't know he can't just show up to her incall whenever he feels like. They had an apt at noon, she gave the address, but he doesn't show. Hours later he decides to just pop on by, you are there for an appointment. He bangs on the door, is drunk.. possibly stumbling around outside being loud, she has to stop session to try to get him to leave if a neighbor hasn't already called the cops because of the disturbance. Your in a hotel/incall with a hooker when the cops get called.
5. You dont do any screening. Guy shows up and boom.. it's a friends husband, your college professor, your uncle george, best friends dad, an ex boss. Sorry that's a risk I'm not ok with taking.
6. More times than not (not all) the ladies that aren't screening are pimped/managed. They aren't worried about who shows up because they have "protection". If you want to take that risk of being robbed, ripped off, jumped, bait and switch that's all on you.
Almost all of those above scenarios have happened to clients and providers I have met over the years. We already know the hobby has its risks but if we are able to stop most from happening because of a little screening I'm not sure why we wouldn't.
As a hobbyist no you dont have to screen or provide that information. That is your right but dont knock the providers that require it. Go see someone that doesnt and move on.
Where to begin with no references?
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