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BabyDallass · 07-08-2016, 11:07 AM

Lol!! I know I'm not the only provider on here that has had this problem.....just because you are taking us out on a boat, doesn't mean we will hang out for free! I have plenty of friends and family members with boats that I can go on anytime. Yea, it's a nice change to ride the waves with a client, but it's still my time...lol it's just amusing to me when a client says, oh but it's a nice relaxing thing for you, lol ummmmm yea it would be if I had some shopping money after...

The fees are the same on land, water and air!

lol

Ginger Doll · 07-08-2016, 12:25 PM

Oh, I think I know who you're referring to. Lmao

peter north77 · 07-08-2016, 01:13 PM

So that means you don't charge extra,if we put on scuba gear and have sex underwater.

OklahomaSooner · 07-08-2016, 01:23 PM

I took a long time lady I would see on a 5 day cruise, I covered her cost of cruise and gave her some spending money....we had a fantastic time and some of the best FUN ever without worrying about each hr's cost. We shared same bed in room and she didn't leave my side once !

Danielle Reid · 07-08-2016, 01:24 PM

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I took a long time lady I would see on a 5 day cruise, I covered her cost of cruise and gave her some spending money....we had a fantastic time and some of the best FUN ever without worrying about each hr's cost. We shared same bed in room and she didn't leave my side once !

Vacation vs Providing....

Sagittarius · 07-08-2016, 02:07 PM

ROFLMAO..... Hey Ginger.... You are as dumb as you look. Lol

Ginger Doll · 07-08-2016, 02:40 PM

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ROFLMAO..... Hey Ginger.... You are as dumb as you look. Lol

Wow, so hostile. Cheer up sweet cheeks, you will eventually find a provider who agrees to give her time away to you on that boat.

Lolahhhhh · 07-08-2016, 02:51 PM

I've spent personal time with clients.. Nothing wrong with it. I've connected with a few. One of my first ever clients is now one of my best friends, we hang out daily. It's good to keep things business but when you have a connection with someone, that's just how it is. So if one of my friend-clients invited me on his boat, I'd do it.

Sagittarius · 07-08-2016, 03:36 PM

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Wow, so hostile. Cheer up sweet cheeks, you will eventually find a provider who agrees to give her time away to you on that boat.

Not worried about it. If you haven't noticed. But, FYI....doubt she was referring to me...have not spoke to her in over a year and have no intention of changing that now. Same goes for you. Too afraid of unknowns from those that post on CG. As for hostile...you hide too much for that to ever happen to you.

Sagittarius · 07-08-2016, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

I've spent personal time with clients.. Nothing wrong with it. I've connected with a few. One of my first ever clients is now one of my best friends, we hang out daily. It's good to keep things business but when you have a connection with someone, that's just how it is. So if one of my friend-clients invited me on his boat, I'd do it.

Lola....you have to remember with Ginger....it is all about money. Hence the reason she post on every possible website, runs people in the ground, and hides behind her computer. But, kudos to you for the willingness to be a friend to clients rather than just a business transaction.

Lazrback · 07-08-2016, 05:29 PM

Alright,,, lets keep on topic without being to rude,,, it is a volatile subject, but adults can discuss things without insults.

BTW I agree with Dallas on this,, sometimes guys think ladies will accept "fun" or "a trip" as part of the fee,,,, and some do, it depends on the fun and the lady concerned. These are all details that must be "figured out" beforehand.

Remember what happens when you assume,,,

BabyDallass · 07-08-2016, 06:10 PM

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Alright,,, lets keep on topic without being to rude,,, it is a volatile subject, but adults can discuss things without insults.

BTW I agree with Dallas on this,, sometimes guys think ladies will accept "fun" or "a trip" as part of the fee,,,, and some do, it depends on the fun and the lady concerned. These are all details that must be "figured out" beforehand.

Remember what happens when you assume,,,

trust me I love to go on boats and fuck it's amazzzzzing, but it's still part of my job. Time is money for us, as well as you guys pays us to leave after. It's always a win win!

BabyDallass · 07-08-2016, 06:12 PM

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So that means you don't charge extra,if we put on scuba gear and have sex underwater.

Lol. As long as it's cute, glittery and pink scuba gear lets go!

Ginger Doll · 07-08-2016, 06:31 PM

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Lola....you have to remember with Ginger....it is all about money. Hence the reason she post on every possible website, runs people in the ground, and hides behind her computer. But, kudos to you for the willingness to be a friend to clients rather than just a business transaction.

I care about way more than money, but I won't tolerate pushy clients that have zero potential for anything more refusing to accept that this is a business, not dating. I do have client friends, that I have chosen to be friends with... There is a choice involved. The difference is they didn't get pushy and demand my time for free, claiming that all I cared about is money, with no established friendship present.

You cannot expect a professional companions off the clock time for free. If a friendship naturally develops, that's its own situation. Otherwise, demanding free time just because you think you have a right to it is disrespectful.

Guest080719 · 07-08-2016, 06:44 PM

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I care about way more than money, but I won't tolerate pushy clients that have zero potential for anything more refusing to accept that this is a business, not dating. I do have client friends, that I have chosen to be friends with... There is a choice involved. The difference is they didn't get pushy and demand my time for free, claiming that all I cared about is money, with no established friendship present.

You cannot expect a professional companions off the clock time for free. If a friendship naturally develops, that's its own situation. Otherwise, demanding free time just because you think you have a right to it is disrespectful.

I agree! And it's downright annoying and insulting. I've had clients who've never taken advantage of my time, and we often get together off the clock, however, my clients who constantly take advantage of my time and leniency, don't typically get to see me off the clock, not because I'm money hungry, but because men who try to get me to stay off the clock, or constantly haggle my prices or time frustrate me. I have a family to care for and return to. In my day job we aren't allowed to work off of the clock, why? Because it isn't right, however, if I just love my job (which I do) I set apart time to volunteer (I work with the National Cancer Coalition and volunteer often) even though child care comes out of pocket that day.
If I choose to enjoy time with you off the clock, it's because you've earned my adoration. If my job constantly kept me over without compensation, I definately wouldn't volunteer like I do. As with my clients. Build repor and gain trust and adoration, then ask me on a relaxing date, being sure that you make it clear that it's just that.