My preference is to have the lovely human beings whom I play with come here... and just to be a bit cruel... here are nine lovely possibilities...
For those who crave more wicked prose, I offer nine possibilities for submissives to consider:
1. The Physical Vocabulary. I love to explore the breadth of possibility. With this experience you have the time (and I have the equipment) to help you figure and understand exactly what everything feels like. From different kinds of floggers to different sorts of clamps and clips and toys. It's just lovely to have all the toys and gear there... and to really understand what all of it feels like. This is particularly amazing for a novice- because you'll *know* what someone is talking about.
2. Bondage. There are a lot of ways to explore bondage, but we'll keep this as one category. There is rope bondage (one of my faves), silk bondage, leather bondage, harness and straps and more.
3. Spanking/Flogging/Cropping/Caning. For those who crave physical sensation, this is a very intense, long spanking session, done for 20 to 40 minutes every hour for as many hours as you can stand. It's intense. It's physically exhausting, emotionally draining, and it takes you to this level that really cannot be described with words. At the end, you are puddle material. Simply puddle material.
4. Sensory Exploration. This is one of my specialties, and a lot of what I do with my boxes. There are so many things that make the skin FEEL. Sandpaper, silk, fur and other textile/tactile objects. Oils like peppermint or cinnamon that cause reactions. Ginger, either the oil or especially fresh ginger. Witch Hazel or Apple-Cider Vinegar evaporating off the skin. Nehru oil massage oil with sandlewood and lavendar to complete relax you. I have so many different ways to play with the senses.
5. Sensory Deprevation. Done right, the world becomes a far away place.
6. Strap On/Strap In Training. The problem with a short session in this realm is that the body takes time to get adjusted. There is also only so much of this sort of play that someone can do at one time (for most people). You body needs to rest. So getting to a fully trained state, takes time and patience. It's nice to have that time. This is particularly true if you want to get to a state like deep fisting... but even if you are just wanting to be comfortably pounded (not a misnomer), than time is a gift.
7. A femme day. I love spending days with lovely creatures who are completely feminized. It's a girlfriends day: we both dress up, and there is play, and tea, and exploration. There is the fun in playing dress-up, of course... but then there is the fun is helping someone put together their character, or watching in awe for those who know precisely where they are in this realm. This is particularly fun when there are other explorations involved.
8. Guinea Pig day. I have a lot of toys... and I love having a day where I can just go through and pick out new toys and see what they do and how they work... and what they reactions are. Sometimes things do not work, but that's when we learn.
9. Masochists and Pain Sluts. I don't like hurting people who do not like to be hurt. I don't really have a mean bone in my body. But there is something about those folks who really love pain. The idea that I can't do anything too hard, that I can really push the boundaries and it will feel positive is so incredibly freeing. I am usually so careful about people's boundaries. I like to push the buttons, and I like to see how far I can take someone... and it's fun to get someone to the edge. But I have a real respect for their limits and boundaries. So having someone who loves the 100 clothespins on their body, with zipper after zipper or someone who likes edgeplay like ropeburns or ball kicking... it's cathartic for me too. I wouldn't dream of doing this to someone who didn't ask for it... but I do love when it is asked for.
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