Proper hobby etiquette

[ChloeCox]

I know there has been a thread about this topic before. However, it seems like it needs to be discussed again.

Providers have a showcase for the following reasons:
A) viewing of photos
B) several topics of information about the providers personality and expectations
C) rates
D) reviews

Do your research gentleman. Look at these showcases and gather information before contacting a lady. See if what she is about meets your criteria. I advise all hobbyists to get in a position to read the "rest of the story" in reviews. As I won't be discussing menu and activities. That jeopardizes my safety. That is what reviews are for. They are an informational tool. If it is not in my reviews I mostly likely don't do the activity. There are hundreds of girls to choose from. Find a girl that does what you're looking for. Most reputable providers don't negotiate activities.

If you cannot afford the rate or simply don't agree with it don't insult yourself by asking for a deal. You've now put yourself on a road of ruining your reputation. Yes, us providers talk. And if you hobby often you'll need good references. It is simple...Call someone who meets your expectations. There is a lady out there for everyone.

This goes for myself...
Last but not least, please steer away from asking for photos to be sent to your phone. Now that I have a showcase with pictures that is not offered. Too many times do I do that yet I'm not booked with by the one requesting.

Just wanting to give a reminder to those who may be unfamiliar with the industry. This should be a fun filled experience for all parties!! Some stuff starts get real old fellas.

[Majichands]

x2

[ChloeCox]

:-)

[SimplyGwen]

Thanks for reminding these guys, Chloe. It seems that some people never get a clue and learn to use (read) the site and resources here. If they took five mins, they might learn alot.

[dalewayward]

You assume all guys can see that. With out the membership upgrade rates are not visible
Ros is not visible either. Please don't be offended but chloe you assume a lot for many of your posts. Proper research is needed on both sides.

[Pinkman2012]

Originally Posted by dalewayward

You assume all guys can see that. With out the membership upgrade rates are not visible
Ros is not visible either. Please don't be offended but chloe you assume a lot for many of your posts. Proper research is needed on both sides.

Hmmm I didn't know that I was wondering why I couldn't see stuff some providers were talking about

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by dalewayward

You assume all guys can see that. With out the membership upgrade rates are not visible
Ros is not visible either. Please don't be offended but chloe you assume a lot for many of your posts. Proper research is needed on both sides.

I understood her post to mean that guys should obtain premium access in order to view ROS comments either through paying for upgrade or writing reviews and if they have not bothered to do either, they shouldn't be badgering her about her services. I didn't think that she was assuming that everyone could see these comments, otherwise she would not have said "I advise all hobbyists to get in a position to read the "rest of the story" in reviews."

Originally Posted by Pinkman2012

Hmmm I didn't know that I was wondering why I couldn't see stuff some providers were talking about

The public can view the basic information, profile and about me sections in provider showcases, however one must be logged in as a member in order to view rates and review links. I do not believe that you need "Premium" access to view rates.

[ChloeCox]

Thanks Gwen. Couldn't have said it better.

[dalewayward]

Originally Posted by Gwendolyn Cain

The public can view the basic information, profile and about me sections in provider showcases, however one must be logged in as a member in order to view rates and review links. I do not believe that you need "Premium" access to view rates.

Your wrong. My point is dont assume. You do need a premium access to see rates.

[reddy938]

I was very fortunate some yrs ago when my first provider, who became one of my ATFs, took me under her wing and gave me valuable advice about what to say when I contact a lady and how to act when I met her. Although I never remember doing any of the no nos in Cloe's post I never show up without some kind of gift, in addition to the donation. I will look on their website and see what gifts interest her. You don't have to break the bank. It could be just a token like a nice candle or a rose. It goes a long way to start the encounter off as a BFE to her and not just another horny guy looking for a piece of meat.

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by dalewayward

Your wrong. My point is dont assume. You do need a premium access to see rates.

Actually it's "You're" wrong - but hey, it's Wednesday...I'm not going to be a grammatical know-it-all.

Thanks for enlightening us.

[ChloeCox]

You're a true gentleman Reddy

I had no idea rates were not shown in our showcases to the public. Nobody (mods or gents) have told me that. I assumed showcases were for public viewing and believe they ought to be. Pretty bizarre on Eccie's behalf. Especially since most providers will not discuss that.

[Eva Damita]

Sometimes, if not often, if not typical,rates can be found on her website, which is usually found on her showcase. Yes, I understand not all providers have a website, try looking over her reviews to get an idea of what others donated. Like the OP said, tons of valuable info can be found. Hell, I don't need to read (nor do I have access TO read) the ROS to learn about a certain gent interested in my companionship.

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Hell, I don't need to read (nor do I have access TO read) the ROS to learn about a certain gent interested in my companionship.

You're right, you really don't need ROS/Premium access to get an idea about the provider. The activities are already listed and recommendation is given. I think the ROS is just more for entertainment purposes anyway.

[Ahlure]

Great Thread yes please read and re-read... Look at reviews even if you can't see the ROS.... Know what kind of girl you are wanting to see...

Ahlure