In putting in my 02$ let me just say that although I am not the worst looking guy I am not the studly type either and hopefully make up for it in personality as well as charm
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That being said I try hard to ask the provider what they want and have them guide me through it while I am at it. Does this help??? Or should we as hobbyist just drop the efforts we are putting into getting a favorable response from our providers and concentrate on being selfish for that hour.
Personally I can usually tell If I am getting a favorable response by paying attention to the involuntary reactions that EVERY person has as well as the voluntary. If a woman is wet then you are doing something right! Even if she is not orgasming over and over I am sure that she at least is enjoying what is going on given the fact that we all have those involuntary responses that we cannot and do not have control over.
I also know what both men and woman can "realistically" fake an orgasm and the other person would not have a clue that they did. Speaking for men in general I know I have at times done it sometimes to get out of a difficult situation where I knew I had no chance of it anyway and didnt want to hurt the providers, or my SO's feelings.
I think this is an interesting topic and I would love to hear more provider's give an frank and honest response to.....
I watched this episode of "Diaries of a call girl" as well and having watched the series from the start., given the fact that the real "Belle" or Brooke Magnati was being a bit guarded about things "as she should be" or better term would be discrete, then I woud say that if she did not orgasm like she says then then she did have some involuntary reactions to situations that did occur... She also stated that her work was something that she enjoyed and she enjoyed sex greatly. So, given that fact I think we can draw some conclusions that although she may have never have acheived orgasm she did derive a great deal of pleasure of many or most of the experiences that she had.
I have met some woman who range from 23 to 47 that say that they have NEVER had the big O with anyone...
Let's hear from some of our best providers in the area who can give a frank response to this thread and be honest,, I don't think that thier are many of us hobbyists who will tell you that real or not it would make a difference,,, Or I could be wrong!