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LazurusLong · 08-10-2011, 01:02 PM

Edit based on some posters replies below.

What do you as a client or a provider consider a fetish?

I know that some of the "managed" providers aren't dealing with the smartest management in the world, but if I hear one more provider tell me a giving a normal BBBJ is a fetish or that taking it up the ass is a fetish, I'm going to scream and walk out the door.

And I know many new providers who are truly indy might have no clue what it means but see it in other ads thinking it might be something easy like just taking a load on their face like in porn.

To ME and I'm not going to speak for anyone else except for the thousands of reviewers who have gotten these typical services and posted reviews here, back on ASPD, TER and other review sites, but I've never seen the following items defined by those reviews as a fetish. Have you?

BBBJ? Does NOT appear as a fetish in reviews.
Greek? Does NOT appear as a fetish in reviews.
Taking a load in your mouth, on your tits or hair or getting your face painted? Does NOT appear as a fetish in reviews.

Being tied up and spanked with some sort of object say a whip or a paddle? FETISH in every review that ever mentions it.

Worshiping a woman's feet and wanting to ejaculate on them? Fetish in reviews that mention this.

Getting sexual enjoyment while watching a partner take a shit or piss? Fetish no matter HOW you watch or where they shit or piss.
Here's a link to some disturbing fetishes:
http://www.voont.com/20-strange-and-...exual-fetishes

IF a provider includes the word Fetish in her ad, or in her Welcome Wagon posts, she really needs to be prepared to handle that sort of thing and not get easily turned off.

Back on ASPD, there was a client who wanted providers to lay very still as if they were DEAD! Fetish? HELL YES!

I'm a straight vanilla sort of guy. not into any fetishes but those providers who use that word really need to look at that forum called Another Realm to see what fetishes are being asked for and talked about or your manager may get a surpise when you go to hand over the money for having to have some client take a shit all over your face. Or a piss or who knows what.

EDIT TO ADD:
There's a link in the Request forum right now where a guy wants to give a Golden Shower.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=271885
THAT is a fetish and any provider who understands that piss is sterile and is not afraid of this could easily do that and then shower normally and be on the way.

That's a good example of what a fetish request truly is.

Waldo P. Emerson-Jones · 08-10-2011, 01:39 PM

What about a bloviating, insufferable ass who has a thing for telling anyone and everyone how they should hobby? Fetish or not?

Guest022712-3 · 08-10-2011, 01:42 PM

That depends Waldo-- does the bloviating, insufferable ass get any sexual jolly from it? I'd think that would be a requirement for it to technically be a fetish.

LazurusLong · 08-10-2011, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

What about a bloviating, insufferable ass who has a thing for telling anyone and everyone how they should hobby? Fetish or not?

If you get your jollies doing so, especially on a hobby board, then sure, in your case, that'd be a fetish.

PT4ME · 08-10-2011, 01:57 PM

"bloviate" ....... NICE WORD!!!! "fittycint" word fo' sho!"

to speak or write verbosely and windily

Boltfan · 08-10-2011, 02:28 PM

Wrong,

All those things can be considered a fetish. Just because they are mainstream TO YOU doesn't mean they are to everyone.

I thought this was going to be a you're, your thread or something.

LazurusLong · 08-10-2011, 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boltfan

Wrong,

All those things can be considered a fetish. Just because they are mainstream TO YOU doesn't mean they are to everyone.

Before calling my post "wrong", show me ONE site that talks about fetishes where a BBBJ or or shooting a load or even greek is listed as a "fetish".

Chainsaw Anthropologist · 08-10-2011, 02:42 PM

Borrowed from vocabulary.com, red highlighting is my addition.....

A fetish is an extremely strong devotion to something. There are sexual fetishes and nonsexual fetishes: both are obsessive interests.
The most common use of the word fetish is probably the sexual meaning. Someone with a foot fetish is abnormally interested in feet and gets sexual pleasure from seeing, being around, and even thinking about feet. There are probably thousands of sexual fetishes, most of which are too inappropriate to write about here. A non-sexual fetish is just an excessive interest in something, like a football fan who lives and breathes everything NFL.

Entire page address....http://www.vocabulary.com/definition/fetish

Therefore, it seems simple, if I'm devoted to BBBJ, Greek or whatever......it's a fetish.

Then again, I don't have a Brobdingnagian ego to feed.

c.a.

Boltfan · 08-10-2011, 02:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Before calling my post "wrong", show me ONE site that talks about fetishes where a BBBJ or or shooting a load or even greek is listed as a "fetish".

Look above, great explanation.

The world does not revolve around you and your tastes LL.

http://www.google.com/#sclient=psy&h...w=1463&bih=643

Over 21 million results. I am sure ONE of them will satisfy your fetish LL.

LazurusLong · 08-10-2011, 03:28 PM

So according to the previous 2 posts, providers who are "devoted" to earning cash for providing sexual favors are really just addressing their fetish?

Maybe I should have simply addressed the GFE definition to make this sort of thread more useful?

How about,

What do you as a client or a provider consider a fetish?

Boltfan · 08-10-2011, 03:35 PM

I would say they are attempting to cater to YOUR fetish, unless said provider is Italiana Princess or TNT Angie, but I digress :-)

The latter question is already beaten to death.

Are we just venting because you got upcharged for bbbj?

Guest082216-1 · 08-10-2011, 04:03 PM

2 different things here.

Every definition of fetish I found says its an abnormal or obsesive interest in something. If you like BJs but its not the only way you can get off, its not a fetish, If the only or prefered way you can get off is a bj, its a fetish.

Then, there is mainstream v deviant. I don't think anyone would argue that intercourse is mainstream sex. For many years, many states had, and some still do, laws against greek. It was and still is considered deviant behavior by many. The definition of Deviant behavior changes quickly and by social group. In our little world, many things we consider normal would be labled deviant by society as a whole.

One of the great things about our hobby is it allows us to partake in deviant behavior, sometimes to the extreme of it becoming a fetish.

Boltfan · 08-10-2011, 04:07 PM

+2 Bubba

LovingKayla · 08-10-2011, 04:26 PM

I just wanted to tell boltfan I'm a functioning derelict that wants to fetish rape him because we derelicts have to stick together.

Spread em babe!

Boltfan · 08-10-2011, 04:29 PM

Come on over here you naughty minx you. Nothing like a good prostate massage from a fellow derelict. Prostate Massage = Fetish? There, I stayed on topic in the face of obvious distraction from Kayla.