Daty

[cooler62]

Heard many comments lately about bad Daty. What do YOU as the provider like? I enjoy it when I can make it a pleasurable experience for both. Happy to Daty !!!!

[Pink Floyd]

Check out the link in my sig line. It is great to have a roadmap, but if you ask a girl what she likes you will get a line of shit, and they will be out fucking the first drugged up gangsta who doesn't give a shit. LOL

[cooler62]

Great link!! That should be taught in schools. Certainly would be a lot more happy people out there !! Thanks for sharing !

[Abbey_Jones]

DATY is awesome! Even if you don't explode, you can usually get some fireworks.

[Satyrrical]

Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Check out the link in my sig line. It is great to have a roadmap, but if you ask a girl what she likes you will get a line of shit, and they will be out fucking the first drugged up gangsta who doesn't give a shit. LOL

Awesome link. Found it myself about a year ago. Embarrassed the hell out of a lady once by making her squirt. She was mortified. I was flattered.

[pyramider]

Just chew the kitty ... she will go over the edge.

[lovehound69]

How many hours of my life have I been doing it wrong??? Ahhhh!!! Damn you Seinfeld!!

[19Trees]

As every sip of wine, every bite of fruit each opportunity to dine is unique. Rarely but sometimes, it takes us off the edge; rarer still to place where losing is winning. This banquet brought Trees down. http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=776505

19Trees

[canuckvic]

Listen and watch to her body movements, breathing, eye contact, etc. You'll know when you are hitting her go buttons! Expect the unexpected too, squirting, nail digging are always positive feedbacks

[Eva Damita]

Focus on my clit, where all the nerves are...just slobbing on my vag in confusion disgusts me.

[pyramider]

Like I said chew away.

[gimme_that]

Every lady is different. What one will enjoy plenty other won't.

I like when providers are sensitive there...to me it shows they are not jaded and still sensitive to feeling.

Sometimes I have done daty and the lady didn't respond with any type of response much....how she reacts and what she prefers to get off matters to me. But its not a biggy if she doesn't get off that way for me to see her again. Although it can be demotivating.

If she requires more than a tongue, a mix of rhythms, well placed fingers, moisture, and dirty talk Ill accommodate it. I have the time and would rather we both get off.

But if she pulls out a toy, or especially a dildo or some shit......and starts to use that in conjunction with my efforts, I see no need to continue. Id rather not play second fiddle to a robot. Is that selfish. I just start to think maybe every tongue technique has been used on her multiple times and her sensitivity down there is much less due to overuse maybe......maybe I'm over thinking it but if she with me and she needs lube; I consider her not enthused lol.

I wonder how ladies would feel if they where giving us oral, and a dude pulled out a pocket pussy or fleshlight in between her techniques.......would you feel slighted......lol

[pyramider]

Let them pull out the toy ... it saves on my time effort since I am a two minute tard and need my nap.

[Danielle Reid]

I like the clit sucked. No fingers inside me, you're not a fucking doctor! Don't lick it like a dog licking his balls either. Suck and flick the tongue.

And no dirty talk, this isn't porn. A few phrases here an there, fine, but talking the entire time makes me feel awkward and I start looking for the clock. Many guys have turned me away from my once favorite pet name of Good Girl. (Talking about the entire date on this one, not just DATY)

If all else fails, nothing beats my Hitachi Magic Wand on HIGH. Just sit back and let me do it myself. You'll have your turn in about 30-60 seconds.

[oldster]

I want to start by saying, I came upon this forum kinda sideways from a link in another forum. This subject blew me away. I guess i just fell of the turnip truck, but I never thought a provider would allow me the huge fun of DATY, much less would actually enjoy it,[as opposed to filing her nails or something] I have been seriously lacking in high quality taste for some time now, and may have to look up a willing provider. Not yet a 'hobbyist'

Anyway.....if it means enjoyment for the woman, yes, please tell me what you want.

In a way, cunnilingus is like golf, lots of people enjoy the activity, doesn't mean they are any good at it. Most are more than willing to take a few tips from a pro to help their game.........