Refrences

[johhnny5]

I've only met up with a couple providers from eccie and I'm generally not the kind of guy who does this often. I see almost all of the providers ask for 2-3 references, but I just can't seem to figure out how to get any. I haven't tried contacting those that request references to ask if they'll still meet me, but I assume they'll say no or try to charge more. Any tips on getting girls to vouch for you? The only girls I've contacted have been those that don't request references, but every time I see a really hot one they ask for them. It seems pointless that I have to pay more because I don't have references... like can't I just pay that money to eccie and then get "verified" or something so I dont need references?

[Fizley]

There are a lot of newby friendly provider. Search will be your friend in finding them.

Participate in the forums and become a recognizable handle. I've had a lot of providers who have taken an active forum presence vs verified reviews. You can tell a lot about the hobbiest by reading his posts.

[~Ze~]

If you are willing to spend money, you might as well start with the gold standard. Get screened via P411. There are plenty of women willing to see even a newbie P411 fella.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

If you are willing to spend money, you might as well start with the gold standard. Get screened via P411. There are plenty of women willing to see even a newbie P411 fella.

YES! P411 is definitely the best way to go. But on Eccie, many providers such as myself have alternative screening for newbies. And then after we’ve met, I’m very reference friendly; as many women are.

You say you’ve seen a couple of providers; can’t you use them as references? And I’ve never heard of charging more for not being able to screen a potential client. It doesn’t make sense. Screening is all about safety and making sure a man is ok to see and a legitimate client. It’s not about the donation.

But since screening and verifying someone can be a time consuming pain in the butt; many of us offer a discount on P411 since the screening is mostly already done by P411 and saves us the hassle.

And it does look a little strange that you’ve been a member since September 2016 and have ONE post and no reviews. You may want to occasionally place an ISO for a newbie friendly provider in your area, and describe your requirements for a Provider.

[pyramider]

The OP should do a search. There are hundreds of threads on this, either do your due diligence or download porn.

[JohnnyYanks]

It took a year and a half to come up with that?

[johhnny5]

Haha no it just took a while to work up the nerve... I'm suuuper paranoid and was afraid that LE are just waiting to bust down my door once I get a few posts on here haha (because obviously if I don't post anything I can just say I didn't know what I was signing up for)

[pyramider]

That means you are a sitting duck. The first thing newbies should do is spend months doing nothing but reading the forums.

[JONBALLS]

fire off some cock pics

[John3030]

As others have said, see some newbie friendly ladies, ask them if they are review and reference friendly and start establishing yourself as a safe member here. I’ve only been on here since last fall as the ladies I have seen for years retired and the local boards aren’t seeing much traffic. I’ve found some great people through here and when either mine or their travel matches up I’ve had no issues scheduling