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CherryTNT210 · 08-13-2013, 07:29 PM

Well I've never done a lot of stuff. Even watching porn makes me feel invasive to someone's privacy but highly turned on. Still been with my hubby for five years now and we have agreed its not a bad idea for me to do this again. Still encountered the idea of having him watch during a session which so far no one minds but I'm very shy to and NEVER have done. I've always loved watching group stuff even yet not yet done. Kinda of willing what should I do???

Fast Gunn · 08-13-2013, 07:40 PM

Well, that is an interesting problem.

But it is not really a problem as mush as it is an opportunity. Ease in.

. . . Try it, if you like continue and if you don't then just stop. Life is all about experimenting.

pyramider · 08-13-2013, 08:27 PM

So the hubby is a cuckold?

Keyhole Arc Blow · 08-13-2013, 09:14 PM

I'd say try it with someone who isn't paying first, because if he flips a shit after seeing you get pounded then the session is pretty much over. Doubtful you'll get a glowing review out of it.

EastTxGent · 08-13-2013, 09:20 PM

The advice to ease in is most likely valid. Easing in is probably best accomplished by having a session with someone with whom you are comfortable, and that person is comfortable with being observed. There are plenty of exhibitionists on this board that may find such an arrangement exciting. Ultimately, however, it is you that must become comfortable. Perhaps you need to assess your limits and determine whether this is right for you?

I wish you the best in grappling with this situation.

joesmo888 · 08-14-2013, 06:22 AM

i have fantasized about my gf getting pounded or sucking a guy off before.. whether i would actually do it is a different story.. hence why i love watching swinger porn.. the screw my wife videos are awesome, albeit fake, but still they turn me on bigtime ... if i stumble upon authentic swinger porn its a gold mine to me.

it would be a turn on to have a husband watch me pound his wife but at the same time its a turn off having a dude creeping me while i do that plus as another poster said who knows if the hubbie will get pissed and stop the session. so not sure if i would pay for that experience when i can have fun with so many beautiful women without feeling uncomfortable.. am i supposed to walk into the session and shake his hand "nice to meet you sir, i hope you don't mind i'm gonna plow your wife and nut in her mouth"

Wendi_Wylde · 08-14-2013, 06:47 AM

Some husbands are turned-on by seeing their wife in ecstacy. There is always a risk that the moment could turn sour, but just like with any provider. You get burned lesson learned.

Loxly · 08-14-2013, 07:57 AM

Many moons ago I was invited to capture the action of a Swingers M & G. During the course of things I did ask one of the guys how he and his SO got into it and if he got off watching his wife with other people.

He told me that initially he wasn't sure about it so they arranged to have a video done of his wife with another guy without him being present. Both of them were so turned on by it that they decided to be permanent members. HIs biggest turn on was to watch his wife being DP'd, which she admitted was her favorite thing.

So you might consider doing that. If you have a webcam and laptop you can do a simple video anywhere.

Guest110516 · 08-14-2013, 08:23 AM

If you want to go straight into the hobby scenario, here's an idea...

Step 1: Tie up hubby in a chair, and position him so he can watch.
Step 2: Do your thang with the hobbyist.
Step 3: Untie hubby after hobbyist is gone.

If there is any drama, it will be just between you and hubby.

joesmo888 · 08-14-2013, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Loxly

Many moons ago I was invited to capture the action of a Swingers M & G. During the course of things I did ask one of the guys how he and his SO got into it and if he got off watching his wife with other people.

He told me that initially he wasn't sure about it so they arranged to have a video done of his wife with another guy without him being present. Both of them were so turned on by it that they decided to be permanent members. HIs biggest turn on was to watch his wife being DP'd, which she admitted was her favorite thing.

So you might consider doing that. If you have a webcam and laptop you can do a simple video anywhere.

SneakyCancer · 08-15-2013, 10:33 AM

wow.....this is definitely a thread lightly subject. Is he wanting to watch because he wants to see what you do to others vs. him or is he really turned on that the fact his wife is getting paid and fucked at the same time?

I often heard of friends that cross this defined line....and don't go back. Either someone cannot get it out their head because they saw with their own two eyes or they want more than the other is willing to do.

CherryTNT210 · 08-18-2013, 04:21 PM

Still has not been done unless the fella can afford it. Otherwise I would never force him to do anything he doesn't have to do. Currently, just seeing fellas again to keep our family afloat is why I'm back.I'm one of those single moms screwed by the lovely system. Thats why I started and not planning this as a retiring field.For me luckily always been sexually a curious one and well it makes me proud to know fellas take care of the women in the long run.Always has been in my eyes a way to explore possibilities of this world. Just grateful I have a hubby whom is truly understanding and supportive of me and my endeavors.

My hopes is I can clean up my financial history get back in school and finish my book. Plus it'd be fun to do some studs,modeling and whatever may come my way. I promise never to break whether society approves of a gal like me or not.

thisguy23 · 08-18-2013, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by CherryTNT210

Still has not been done unless the fella can afford it. Otherwise I would never force him to do anything he doesn't have to do. Currently, just seeing fellas again to keep our family afloat is why I'm back.I'm one of those single moms screwed by the lovely system. Thats why I started and not planning this as a retiring field.For me luckily always been sexually a curious one and well it makes me proud to know fellas take care of the women in the long run.Always has been in my eyes a way to explore possibilities of this world. Just grateful I have a hubby whom is truly understanding and supportive of me and my endeavors.

My hopes is I can clean up my financial history get back in school and finish my book. Plus it'd be fun to do some studs,modeling and whatever may come my way. I promise never to break whether society approves of a gal like me or not.

Those two statements don't add up.

CherryTNT210 · 08-18-2013, 06:07 PM

No problem if your curious about my TMI. I'm a mama of two. My first born I had the run-around with the state(TX) and his father was not found for six years. Sadly because of their great choices in employees I was a victim of the system when it came to childsupport. However, the dead beat dad in which has the physique to be even a soldier and good role model rather make it to where not just me but another mother have taxpayers keep us afloat. Sadly this is every 3-4 months before even a seeing a cent. Because of this TANF was never a reality for me. Then when it comes to my second gift my hubby is the daddy but still the type man trying to be Superman without resources. Yet, how can I not love that. Luckily, too he never gives up and has a great pervy side to keep us not just a happy couple but determined. Since my background I'm making plans to hopefully get going on my education, but rather keep that private due to lots of people's old fashion beliefs. So does that give you some answers perfect enough?

CherryTNT210 · 08-18-2013, 06:46 PM

Who's Your Daddy is what its all about anyway :P