So I finish an hour session with a new lady, kiss, hug and leave....I walk toward my car and start to drive. And I am wondering....did she O? She got 2 bells from me, but I have no idea if her bell rang at all. There was good IOP. She seemed to enjoy herself. We were both into each other and going at it, but I have no idea if she came even once.
I know some guys are like, "who cares?"
Regardless, most providers i see let me know in some form or fashion when they are cumming. Its awesome! For many guys it is a compliment to his ego when his sex partner is cumming. But some ladies either don't O or keep it quiet and to themselves during a session, which is what happened in the session I recently had.
Most of the girls I have had sessions with say that, this is also a hobby for them. They love having sex and like to supplement their income. Basically, foreplay, fucking men, cumming, orgasms and getting paid for it is awesome! It must be a thrill to meet strangers and have great sex as a supplement to a RW job. (OK, probably doesnt always happen that way, but when it does I bet its pretty nice). All I know is that straight guys cannot make much money this way.
Other ladies hobby for a living and to some degree it has to be about making enough money to live on. Many of them love sex and it shows. Regardless, doing the basic math indicates that some of these ladies have have more sexual encounters each year than I probably have had in my entire life.
Do these ladies cum in almost every session? Do they want to cum in every session? Is it hit and miss depending on the guy and the Karma? .......probably no lady will admit to faking orgasms.
So I gotta ask, do most ladies go into almost every session wanting to get her bells rung? (just like us guys want)? Do you want the guy to know when your bell is ringing? Does it suck when the guy gets his, but you don't? Is it a let down when the guy is a dead fish and the session is a job that is all about him? I realize that many girls entered this hobby life because they love sex.....so has your orgasm become an addiction for you? If you don't get one or more in a session do you need to vibrate or rub one out later or every day?
ON THE OTHER HAND, is it OK when your O doesn't happen? Do you never have an O in a session, but instead save it for your SO? Are there certain situations when you don't want the guy to know you just came? Is cumming your private thing? Your private escape?
OK, that is a lot of questions..... I guess my last session left me kinda empty and wondering because part of the reason I hobby is because I like to feel the girl I am with shudder and moan in an orgasm.....a real one (and they usually are). Seems like more often its the younger providers who are more reserved or quiet about their Os. Although some are very vocal too. I don't know....its not like I keep notes. I am a guy. I have a hot dog not a taco. Can someone please explain some of this stuff to me?