Mistress Convention

[empire_song]

Ladies and gentlemen

Looks as though I could have met a lady who considers me one of her ATF's indeed a BFE. She is she tells me considering changing her way of life and that she may actually become my mistress.

Question is (and we have not really approached this yet) is she expecting me to fully fund her living from that point. Is that normal and par for the course? Off course she just be going UTR and lying to me and keeping a few ATF's on her books. I do honestly get the sense she does want to move on her present ways.

Surly ladies out there you do met guys sometimes that you actually really quite like. OR i'm a naive mid aged guy fallen for a young attractive lady (and im the fool)


thanks Empire

[Wakeup]

You're the fool...

[flowerflower1]

listen to the big head....

[h2theizzo]

[The G.O.A.T]

Don't listen to these asshat's. The question is do you want to commit to this lady, as much as reasonably possible. If so, go for it. C'mon you only live once. You can have the fairy tale. What's the worst that can happen? Oh, yeah, that's right. EVERYTHING... I don't know this chick though. She could be serious. Tread lightly.


But seriously. The odds are against you.

[Rezo]

i say, "GO FOR IT, DUDE!"

[landon]

Looks your being played by a ROB. Don't give them any handouts or loans. I see these gals ads on sites like Seeking Arrangement.

I only pay them on a per session basis.

[empire_song]

Originally Posted by landon

Looks your being played by a ROB. Don't give them any handouts or loans. I see these gals ads on sites like Seeking Arrangement.

I only pay them on a per session basis.

Sorry what is a ROB?

Not up on the internet lingo all the time

Empire

[jpatduf]

I hat eto quote the old man, but " if it seems to good to be true......run the other way"

[pyramider]

Just go for it ....... and let us know how it turns out.


Or download some porn and invest in some lube. Use the SEARCH button and many of life's questions will be answered.

[chess9718]

Listen to that advise man. It will save yu lots of green. Normally, for some ladies in this hobby, when they see a nice guy who can be taken advantage of, they try to play that life story game. If you fall for it, several $$ later, you will be looking at an empty bank account and a jack daniel's wondering how dum u could have been since the girl is gone too. And yeah, not to lump em all together, some of em ladies i know will actually guide you well, so avoid this one.

[UTRLVR]

I initially was going to write "Run Forrest Run!", but that sounded harsh.

So here is the other angle. How much is it going to cost you to maintain her as a mistress?

Has she been living trick to trick, basically living cash only or does she have a legitimate job, bank account, money invested? If the answers are No, Kind Of, No then run and that is not because she says she is retiring, but because no chick without some plan for the future financially is just one of thousands.

I cannot count how many times I have had to advise women from all backgrounds; married friends, married lovers, girlfriends, single friends, UTR Providers and Providers basically how stupid they are with their finances.

Strapped for cash makes people do stupid irrational things and if she is a Provider and she does not have her head on her shoulder and she gets strapped for cash and you are not paying enough then she will go back to "working" for the money.

I know it sounds cold hearted, but in the end financial stability is the quickest route to sanity.

[hyperdrive]

Originally Posted by Viq1970

I initially was going to write "Run Forrest Run!", but that sounded harsh.

So here is the other angle. How much is it going to cost you to maintain her as a mistress?

Has she been living trick to trick, basically living cash only or does she have a legitimate job, bank account, money invested? If the answers are No, Kind Of, No then run and that is not because she says she is retiring, but because no chick without some plan for the future financially is just one of thousands.

I cannot count how many times I have had to advise women from all backgrounds; married friends, married lovers, girlfriends, single friends, UTR Providers and Providers basically how stupid they are with their finances.

Strapped for cash makes people do stupid irrational things and if she is a Provider and she does not have her head on her shoulder and she gets strapped for cash and you are not paying enough then she will go back to "working" for the money.

I know it sounds cold hearted, but in the end financial stability is the quickest route to sanity.

Very well said.

[ramblmkey]

+1 for Viq1970

Dead. On.

[Jack Flash]

Why would you want a hooker for a mistress? Don't you have any girls at work that you could play with?