Silly

[KayC_K]

Is it really the thinking of everyone here that when a girl inadvertently places a picture on an ad where someone else is in the room, she's automatically being Pimped?
There is never once any backlash against the Asian parlors who we all know aren't doing anything without a "manager" who also by the way pays their for their ads. Their are tons of reasons photos with background extras get uploaded by accident but to go on record publicly insinuating someone is Pimped is the most childish ridiculous baby talk I've ever heard.

[cmore197474]

well, the guy in the background probably isn't a client. if it is, that's another reason not to see the girl. whether the guy in the background is a pimp, or a boyfriend,or a cop, it makes me uncomfortable seeing that girl. i also see the AMPS as closer to an agency than a pimp. although they really are not either one.

[seductrix4u]

We have an entire forum dedicated to Agencies. The ladies there are managed.

We have providers who have men who dictate how their businesses are run. They have various titles--SO, boyfriend, pimp. As long as the guy is not in the room with the provider at the same time the client is there, I don't see what difference it makes. Now if these managers are being intrusive (in the closet, hanging out in the lobby to scope out clients, robbing clients), then there's a problem. But I think that is not usually the norm.

We have quite a few very popular ladies who are known to be managed, especially if they travel in packs. If it came down to only seeing 100% independent providers, the pickings around here would become much slimmer.

If I were a client, it would make no difference to me if a girl were managed or not. She is a grown ass woman with choices to make. And it's not my place to make them for her. If she shows up clean, kind, skilled and attentive, I'd be happy, regardless of her management status.

But on the OP's original comment, I think it's just poor judgment to have a picture of a man in your showcase photos. Ruins the "illusion" for the guys. Same with trash laying around. And empty booze bottles. And clothes all over the floor. And overflowing ashtrays. If you're old enough to be a provider, you're old enough to clean up after yourself.

[Phredej]

Pimps aka mgmt are like children, they are better to be seen than not heard. Granted a reputable pimp would have no issue with a well paying respectful client. However, there is always the potential with MGMT that things could get ugly fast. While I'm always prepared for most every eventuality, adding a pimp to the mix just isnt worth it when I do the math. So if you are being pimped, make sure he knows I want to pay my money and have you leave; period.

[KayC_K]

My point is....cell phone has one window for showing the available pics she has to choose from. The app has a teeny tiny thumbnail replica of said choice list. Don't you think that in a hurry and among dozens of similar posed photos the one photo she couldn't get a good lighting until she faced the direction that some friends mug was standing too close got picked? And who is anyone to give the slightest judgemental second thought to who the person is in relationship to the girl? It's her phone, her place, and her own private life and she just has a little less time on her hands than most of you do for scrutinizing every little detail. There are Dozens of other more obvious signs that an escort has a pimp and this thread of consciousness has retarded written all over it. Oh, and as for the agency/pimp debate on Asians wouldn't an agency honestly advertise the faces of its employees? Wouldn't a pimp use bogus ads and fake photos to get business in the door?

[bigryan2222]

Sure a guy in the background could be innocent, but in a hobby that is all about discretion I think it is pretty dumb of a girl to accidentally put someone in the background. Assuming negative things from a girl that fails in regards to quite possibly the most important thing in her ad is reasonable.

People on here love to jump to a pimp as the explanation but incompetence is about as bad.

[Savannah Moon]

There are a lot of assumptions in this industry.
Take them personally or be offended by them and it WILL effect your attitude, business ,
Emotions ..you get where I am going.

Guys Don't give as much of a care as they claim to like seduxtress stated .Performance, Attitudes, safety & cleanliness are generally their top concerns.As are ours.
Out of sight out of mind.
I think a pic with a guy lurking in the back ground is about as professional as cluttered rooms
Turds in toilets, paraphernalia weapons,
Be Classy, naughty ,fun Nobody wants to see anything that makes them feel unsafe, uncomfortable, insecure, or out of sorts.
Your first & most impressions upon a gentleman is That Photo.. & if a gentleman is coming in to Spend time and money..irreguardless the amount, It is your responsibility to make him at ease.
PERIOD.
read some alerts in different areas or comb through ours & you will find your answers & then some.

[vitokc]

Well said. It's just poor business practice. No matter the business, be professional. Then you don't waste your time complaining about what people think. Tell the pimp/boyfriend/husband to get out the room when you take pics Problem solved.

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

...
I think a pic with a guy lurking in the back ground is about as professional as cluttered rooms
Turds in toilets, paraphernalia weapons,
Be Classy, naughty ,fun Nobody wants to see anything that makes them feel unsafe, uncomfortable, insecure, or out of sorts.
Your first & most impressions upon a gentleman is That Photo.. & if a gentleman is coming in to Spend time and money..irreguardless the amount, It is your responsibility to make him at ease.
PERIOD.
...

+1
If the provider can't be professional enough to scrutinize the pics she posts as an ad, she is probably not someone I want to see anyway.

[sjohnlewis]

Originally Posted by KayC_K

Is it really the thinking of everyone here that when a girl inadvertently places a picture on an ad where someone else is in the room, she's automatically being Pimped?

To answer you question. YES!

[ScubaBad]

Most pimps take the majority of the money and the women is basically a slave, so YES I DO F'N CARE and will not EVER knowingly see a pimped woman.

[Savannah Moon]

I PERSONALLY know many Clients who won't... The reality behind what goes on before and after you meet that provider is unimaginable.

YET several claim to Not support that system & DO.

There will always be a dark side to this industry & it will always Be knowingly Supported.

Maybe not by you Scuba..but by MANY.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

I don't automatically think that a guy inadvertently in a picture is a pimp. However, I do think that that young lady who is supposed to be the subject of the picture is careless.

If it's a pimp, yeah, ok... we know most of the verified providers in the area who are managed, and, whatever... but if it's not a pimp, is it a sibling?

Maybe her dad's taking the picture for her?!? Or, is it a client who, out of the goodness of his heart, snapped a pic on his phone and texted it back to her. Now, said client has his picture (albeit generally unfocused) on BackPage now, too!

Granted, he took the picture, but... careless all around...

[bamscram]

Two turnoffs.
Someone in the background.
A turd in the toilet.

[squatchie44]

I would think maybe he is included with the booking. Maybe he is extra? I do not know these things.