Provider Screening

[405Newguy]

I'm having a hard time understanding why some providers want your personal information for screening. NO, im not talking about your every day STG girl, but reputable providers.
Some providers want you to give them your real life first and last name, along with your real life phone number, and some even want you to send some form of ID. I'm not asking if I should do it, so don't jump in saying, "don't do it".
The problem I have is, most providers don't give their real first and last names. Some providers don't even show their faces on their profiles.
Why in the world would a provider expect you to hand them your entire life, while you know nothing about them? Why would a provider expect so much trust to be given to them, yet they hide behind hobby numbers and hobby names? Even if they use their real names in the rare times, who are they that they feel as if they are so trust worthy with our personal info?
Some will say, "I dont save the info, I delete the info, it's just to screen one time". Yet, there's no proof that a client's info was deleted and won't be used for something nefarious later on.
Hopefully a few providers will give their perspective on this.

[Brickman69]

If more info is asked for then you are comfortable giving, then don’t. Simply tell that there must be another way to verify with more discretion or you’ll have to take your business elsewhere.
Also helps to have a reference or two.
It’s a scary world out there, dont give away any information that u feel could harm you, but understand that they are only asking cuz they prolly been burned before.
BE SAFE OUT THERE!!!!

[Stella Sweets]

I think it all depends on the provider. For example, I have about 3-5 ways to screen a potential client. I also suggest maybe conversing with the provider to help get more comfortable and then possibly eventually you may feel ok giving a little nugget of info. I feel like, if you’re a legitimate individual there is ALWAYS a way to be screened. ♥️

[Safaricat]

What we do is not per say “ok” legally. That is why guy say only verify with references. This idea that callgirls can tell who is LE/psychopath based on a pic of you is horsepoo. There is however several instances where girls have blackmailed, exposed mongers, and used info of mongers to get themselves out of jams with LE.

If they can’t verify you via good references they are no better than the scammers that post from india/africa

[Lespaulmankc]

Originally Posted by Stella Sweets

I think it all depends on the provider. For example, I have about 3-5 ways to screen a potential client. I also suggest maybe conversing with the provider to help get more comfortable and then possibly eventually you may feel ok giving a little nugget of info. I feel like, if you’re a legitimate individual there is ALWAYS a way to be screened. ♥️

Thank you for not saying “ conversating”. That seems to be a trend these days. Ugh…

[jan-w]

Once you give out your personal info, it's out there forever. Nothing is ever permanently deleted. And you have no idea who has access to your information...for the rest of your life. That should scare guys but the flesh is weak and a stiff dick is stupid.

[HillYeager]

I have had providers call my wife and try to exploit me. Thankfully my wife didn't believe her. That was when I used to give out my real name and info. I will never do that again. I have plenty of referrals if needed.

[405Newguy]

Originally Posted by HillYeager

I have had providers call my wife and try to exploit me. Thankfully my wife didn't believe her. That was when I used to give out my real name and info. I will never do that again. I have plenty of referrals if needed.

Oh wow!

[Bames Jond]

Originally Posted by HillYeager

I have had providers call my wife and try to exploit me. Thankfully my wife didn't believe her. That was when I used to give out my real name and info. I will never do that again. I have plenty of referrals if needed.

Damn seriously?

Guess that settles it….im going to remain a secret agent.

[Stella Sweets]

Haha yeah doesn’t even sound like proper English…
We all know I’m not just a pretty face though… i have a liiiiitle bit of education. ��

[Stella Sweets]

That provider probably had an ash tray and a Sonic Drive In cup on her nightstand along with her rates being “whatever you wanna give me….”

It is all about WHO you choose. You guys have to understand that there is research to be had on your end as well.

Common sense ain’t all that common these days huh, folks? Hahaha

[CantBuyMeLove]

I understand safety from both sides. Can be very difficult to navigate. LE is getting highly ambiguous with what they'll do, so I pity the professional girlfriends. But not so much I'll disclose my personal data.

10 years ago I paid for 6 months of P411, never since. When I send an appointment request, I say I have a P411 ID if they want. Usually a quick response from girl, so quick I know they didn't even check it, even if they did request the number.

[Bames Jond]

Originally Posted by CantBuyMeLove

I understand safety from both sides. Can be very difficult to navigate. LE is getting highly ambiguous with what they'll do, so I pity the professional girlfriends. But not so much I'll disclose my personal data.

10 years ago I paid for 6 months of P411, never since. When I send an appointment request, I say I have a P411 ID if they want. Usually a quick response from girl, so quick I know they didn't even check it, even if they did request the number.

They didn’t even try conversating first?

[Unique_Carpenter]

Stella gets the thread winning post(s) award.

[405Newguy]

Originally Posted by Bames Jond

They didn’t even try conversating first?