This is for the ladies and those in the medical field. My SO and I are in different states and while away, she stopped using the Pill. She lost weight and I did notice and liked, but now is back on the pill and is gaining weight or as I tell her, "maybe holding water", because she feels bloated. Plus they tell her that it is good to take because it will control a cyst that she has in her uterus and if she stops taking it, there are 50/50 chance that it will re-grow but no real measurements what the chances are.
The reason I tell her is because when I get to CO, I want to do exercises with her and to be honest, I like her slim/voluptuous, not skinny, but not a chunker fatter either. I told her I can get fixed so she won't have to worry, but I think she is afraid of the cyst coming back. At the same time she was going through some psychological withdraws from not taking the pill and I think she needs the pill to stabilize which I think is kinda scary, because it sounds like a dependency.
I kinda want her off the pill, it is not natural and may be altering the person that she really is.
But what do I know? I'm just a guy.