Is there anything you Gents actually like about providers?

[dodger]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Is there anything you Gents actually like about providers?

Of course! I love providers, literally ... and in the hobby sense of the word!

Ladies, you will have to determine if any or all apply:

I enjoy the reality that there even are providers. Hot, sexy, women who are prepared to share their charms with me, for a very limited period of time ... which is OK with me. All I have to do is be accept their standards and abide by their processes ... all of which is acceptable to me. Given that ... it's a cornucopia of carnal delights.

I like it when I send a note on P411, asking the lady to look at my profile and she actually reads my profile before replying "thanks, babe. when do you want to see me" (if you didn't read the profile ... I really don't).

I like the entire TCB to be well done, communications, scheduling, directions; punctual and as "advertised".

I like a tidy incall.

I like it when a lady communicates clearly and promptly .. and with a cheerful and positive tone.

I like it when the woman puts care into her appearance, looking sexy and perhaps even a bit slutty. This includes dress (being naked and on your knees is an acceptable substitute), make up, and mild scents ...

I like it when the lady is comfortable and confident with herself ... and everything else.

(Acting "as if" is acceptable from here on)

I like it when I'm greeted warmly.

I like it when I'm treated affectionately from the "get go".

On a hobby date, I never lose sight that it's a hobby date .... so I like it when the lady behaves as though it is just simply what she wants to be doing. And that goes for the entire date .... as though this is what she wants to be doing and I'm the guy she wants to be doing it with .. or to (damn ... ending with a preposition).

... and I like the fact that I can have a romantic fantasy with the lady. I like the joy of her body ... and the way she uses it to give me pleasure.

.... oh, yeah .... and I like a little gratitude ... inasmuch as I selected this particular lady.

and I promise to be a gentleman. To hold up my end of things. To be prompt arriving and leaving. To be generous when appropriate. To treat the lady with respect and affection. And to be grateful.

I'm sure I left stuff out ... I count on you folks to fill in the blanks.

I should conclude by saying ... I'm very careful when I choose a hobby date ... and I am rarely disappointed. Generally .... I have had wonderful experiences with ladies who have been delightful. So, a big thank you, ladies (you know who you are!)

[Guest011218]

I almost teared up, dodger!

Props to this thread!

[Charlie Brown]

I recently told a very special lady that when I see her naked, it makes me melt inside ! And it does ! My insides are surely pudding by now !

[FunInDFW]

Originally Posted by Charlie Brown

I recently told a very special lady that when I see her naked, it makes me melt inside ! And it does ! My insides are surely pudding by now !

... that you secrete through your penis when it's in one of her orifices?

[Charlie Brown]

Originally Posted by FunInDFW

... that you secrete through your penis when it's in one of her orifices?

Fun ! Please, people are eating in here !

[Grace Preston]

How can you have any pudding if I don't eat your meat? 😁

[Kendall4U]

I teared up a bit as well. We've never met and he described me perfectly
Thanks for a positive thread for the ladies OP!

[Fawlty]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

How can you have any pudding if I don't eat your meat? 😁

Lol, I love it. I also love the providers that keep a straight face when I take off my underwear.

[dodger]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

We've never met and he described me perfectly

Then you should add the text "meets and exceeds the dodger experience standards" to your next ad (intended with genuine love and affection)

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by bambigirl

I almost teared up, dodger!

I like providers who have such sweet dispositions.

Originally Posted by GracePreston

How can you have any pudding if I don't eat your meat? 😁

Very clever, Grace.

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by dodger

Of course! I love providers, literally ... and in the hobby sense of the word!

Ladies, you will have to determine if any or all apply:

I enjoy the reality that there even are providers. Hot, sexy, women who are prepared to share their charms with me, for a very limited period of time ... which is OK with me. All I have to do is be accept their standards and abide by their processes ... all of which is acceptable to me. Given that ... it's a cornucopia of carnal delights.

I like it when I send a note on P411, asking the lady to look at my profile and she actually reads my profile before replying "thanks, babe. when do you want to see me" (if you didn't read the profile ... I really don't).

I like the entire TCB to be well done, communications, scheduling, directions; punctual and as "advertised".

I like a tidy incall.

I like it when a lady communicates clearly and promptly .. and with a cheerful and positive tone.

I like it when the woman puts care into her appearance, looking sexy and perhaps even a bit slutty. This includes dress (being naked and on your knees is an acceptable substitute), make up, and mild scents ...

I like it when the lady is comfortable and confident with herself ... and everything else.

(Acting "as if" is acceptable from here on)

I like it when I'm greeted warmly.

I like it when I'm treated affectionately from the "get go".

On a hobby date, I never lose sight that it's a hobby date .... so I like it when the lady behaves as though it is just simply what she wants to be doing. And that goes for the entire date .... as though this is what she wants to be doing and I'm the guy she wants to be doing it with .. or to (damn ... ending with a preposition).

... and I like the fact that I can have a romantic fantasy with the lady. I like the joy of her body ... and the way she uses it to give me pleasure.

.... oh, yeah .... and I like a little gratitude ... inasmuch as I selected this particular lady.

and I promise to be a gentleman. To hold up my end of things. To be prompt arriving and leaving. To be generous when appropriate. To treat the lady with respect and affection. And to be grateful.

I'm sure I left stuff out ... I count on you folks to fill in the blanks.

I should conclude by saying ... I'm very careful when I choose a hobby date ... and I am rarely disappointed. Generally .... I have had wonderful experiences with ladies who have been delightful. So, a big thank you, ladies (you know who you are!)

Dodger- great response. I could not be as articulate about my feelings and approach in my relationships except to say we are on the same page. Honestly there have been in my 9 year experience in DFW only two disappointments in the hobby and two super stars, only one of whom is still making me a very happy camper.

[L.A.]

I like it when they put out.

[Guest092216]

All of the above.

[Guests021916]

I like these ladies in so many ways .
The ladies I see open the door and smile. They seem happy to see me in their pretty eyes.
They might hug and kiss me hello. They do not rush to the next activity. They let me linger in an embrace so that I can smell their hair and enjoy the look they have choosen. They know I like gentle romantic meetings. They always seem to find a way to make me feel they want me. Maybe a small joke or smile now. If I tell a story they laugh and help me with my nerves.
I set the pace mostly, but they kind of gently guide me so time isn't up and I still have my shoes on.
I love these ladies, and I bring that to the sessions. I want to be so gentle, but passionate. They can go together. They let me know if the passion is getting away from me without embarassing me..
They know that I want to have a succesful "launch" and help me feel for the right combination.

If I bring a small gift they are gracious in the acceptance even if it goes in the trash after I leave.

When I came into the hobby I had limited partners and experience. The ladies have been patient and
kind in their instruction. I am much more confident now thanks to these ladies.

I always offer lunch. They are always kind if they can not go. Occasionally they do go and we have
a wonderful time.
I have learned so much thanks to these ladies. I just wish I had meet them a long time ago. They are
so skilled at pretending to enjoy the kisses and sexual overtures. They taught me not to over study the situation and just feel like the stud I wish I was for just a little while....

[Mr. Rogers]

Dodger, much respect to you for a well thought out thread. I almost said "my hats off to you" but i thought that might be taken the wrong way.