This was not the post I was hoping to make, today. In fact it is quite the opposite.
In the interest of full disclosure, I have seen Jayne/Sweet.Nothings before but not without a whole lot of frustration and squirrelliness. The misadventures can be found here:
Stood Up by Jayne/Sweet.Nothings
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne
Here:
Jayne/Sweet.Nothings Redeemed herself (but not without some misadventures), Positive review to come.
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne
And here:
Review: Adventures and Misadventures with Jayne / Sweet.Nothings and Katy
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1148907
Now, I have wanted to see her since our last sessions a couple of years ago. When we finally able to coordinate, we had a lot of fun. We share a lot of the same kinks. I had high hopes...hopes that were to be dashed.
Last week on 20FEB18 I had sent a message to Jayne / Sweet.Nothings . I also called an texted her. Nothing...Until today.
Then I get a text message on my phone and a private message here. We go back and forth. I try to set something up but she ghosts on me. Much later she replies and apologizes and tells me that things are hard for her and that I should walk a mile in her shoes. I tell her that I would not look good in heels. It is not that I lack empathy. I have a lot of empathy as long as the other person gives at least caring.
I should note that she only communicates over test which is infuriating, especial when coordination is breaking down. I asked her about this and she said that she gets nervous when talking on the phone. Seriously? If talking on the phone it too much for you, how do you function as an adult in the modern world. Apparently by what I have seen, not all that well.
Further discussion ensues. I decide to make and appointment. I am heading out the door when I get a text message that her ride fell through and could I pick her up. This is annoying but I give her the benefit of the doubt and agree to pick her up.
After much searching I find the address. I send text messages saying that I am there and get nothing back. I finally get pissed off and leave.
Then, when I am about half way home I get a message that she didn't hear her phone and could I come back. More texting back and forth goes on. I am still pissed but I figure I will give here one more chance.
One my way back to place where she is at, I stop and text that I am almost there. Then I get a message,"She is almost ready for you." I immediately text back "Who is this?" but get no response. Not a good sign.
I get to the place. I am told to go to build x. After much searching I find building x where I sit for 5 minutes. I send more text messages but get no response. I am pretty creeped out and decide to leave.
Sadly, it seems that others have experienced similar troubles as evidenced in the comments in some of her reviews and here:
NCNS by Sweet.Nothings
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne
I understand that things happen but when the do you should try to make things right. Jayne / Sweet.Nothings did not try to make things right. Now by make things right, you don't have to do much. Just acknowledge it and maybe be give a reasonable amount of extra time and service. Hell, an extra 15 minutes would be enough to make a mends for the trouble. Whatever it is, it can be a token of care and really not much. During the course of the texting, it was quite clear that Jayne / Sweet.Nothings was not interested at all in making things right.
Even if she did offered to make things right I would be hesitant to take her up on such an offer. Just setting up the appointment would not be worth the frustration. I am not expecting to get anything in recompense from her. I really don't want to deal with here again. At this point I just want to let everyone else know so they can avoid her and the squirrelly frustration that comes with her.
Avoid Jayne/Sweet.Nothings: Total Time Waster
