Sugadaddy

[Hawkeye9]

I am interested in using the Sugardaddy site, any one here done that. I have done my profile just not paid. Seems like the ladies expectations is they would want alot of money and expect gifts all the time, I am like why bother when we have this way.
Thing is I like writing reviews and hearing about others experiences. Can not do that for a sugar girl!!

I hooked up with a young 22 year old 2 days ago that was a favorite earlier this year that does not advertise this anymore, but she also mention she is on sugar and she basically take cash ands give sex. I am like whats the difference? Anyways just wondering if its a big waste of time in your opinion

[otrdriver]

sounds like she is double dipping, wonder if her sugar daddy is aware. My thoughts are if you can afford to be a sugar daddy then the sugar should be safe and true to preclude any STD problems

[npita]

Originally Posted by otrdriver

sounds like she is double dipping, wonder if her sugar daddy is aware. My thoughts are if you can afford to be a sugar daddy then the sugar should be safe and true to preclude any STD problems

Seriously? You really expect monogamy in a SD/SB arrangement? Take the same precautions you would with any sort of p4p sexual encounter.

[Guest012510-4]

It is a waist of time if you are looking for anything other than finding one girl to pamper and spoil with no guarantees of anything.

The board implies a dating site to meet wealthy/women men etc....I am sure it has worked for some.

It all depends on what you are really looking for.

I was on the site before I decided to venture into this world and what I found is a bunch of 30thousand dollar a year millionairs wanting to take you to Outback and then to bed and then they tell you their married and how it was all a big mistake etc.... That is the gist of it....... Or girls wanting to be providers without having to admit it to themselves, so they sugar coat it with the term Sugar Daddie. Nothing wrong with wanting a single sugar daddie, it is the ideal situation-but it is what it is.

Sometimes I think this part of my life is the most honest part.

[Hawkeye9]

soon they will have a sugar daddy credit card logo, imagine giving that to a waiter
yes my friend even said she had a few sugar papas, so there goes the monogamy aspect.

[YSD]

I've opined on numerous occassions about how much I enjoy providers. With the proper research you ususally end up with a gorgous girl, a clear agenda, and not much grief. I love providers because to be successful they have to be smart, articulate and good business people. You can't beat that combination. The operative phrase of course is with research!

[Guest030911]

Many providers and hobbyists work the sugar daddy sites. It attracts all kinds. there are some who don't even want cash!

I have often run into the gals who want money in exchange for sex, but will tell you, " I don't want you to think I am a whore". Of course not, honey, just keep sucking...

It's just a variation of the game with a lot more flexibility and negotiating. Keep in mind, that the level of discretion that exists with the ladies here is not as prevalent on some of the sugar daddy sites. I have heard of some pissed off gals who think nothing of outing their sugar daddies when things go bad.

[YSD]

cpi3000 said,"I have heard of some pissed off gals who think nothing of outing their sugar daddies when things go bad. "

jericho99 said, "OUCH!!!"

[Guest050613-02]

Originally Posted by cpi3000

Many providers and hobbyists work the sugar daddy sites. It attracts all kinds. there are some who don't even want cash!

I have often run into the gals who want money in exchange for sex, but will tell you, " I don't want you to think I am a whore". Of course not, honey, just keep sucking...

It's just a variation of the game with a lot more flexibility and negotiating. Keep in mind, that the level of discretion that exists with the ladies here is not as prevalent on some of the sugar daddy sites. I have heard of some pissed off gals who think nothing of outing their sugar daddies when things go bad.

I have had a lot of fun in the SD/SB world & continue to do so on a weekly basis. It is more time consuming that a p4p hobby set-up, but the rewards are tremendous.



My two biggest pieces of advice would be to 1) listen to what CPI said about discretion, and 2) use protection just as you do in the hobby world. Treat a SD/SB arrangement like you would a p4p arrangement with the requisite hobby phone, hobby email, hobby alias, and safe sex practices. I say this from experience as I had a prospective SB try to blackmail me with personal info upon our first meeting. As for safe sex, I thought I was exclusive with a couple girls until I started comparing notes with a fellow ECCIE member & realized we were dick brothers a couple times over.

Too much to lose not to take precautions both regarding your privacy & your health.

[Hawkeye9]

Dick brothers expression cracks me up ReadCT, although I am sure some of us are and do not know it!!!

[Kelly TNT]

Note to self.......Apparent "Dick Brothers" on this site.

Oooooof...

~Kelly TNT

[travelling_man]

The SD route can be very rewarding, but it takes a lot more time and effort than most want to put into it. It is not a sure thing. Most girls want to meet you first somewhere and get to know you and feel comfortable before jumping into bed. The girls don't want to feel like a whore and they don't want you to think of them as a whore, but most (not all) want money and they are willing to give you sex. So in the end you get the same thing with a few exceptions -

1) There are no set "rates". When I meet a new SB I usually don't even talk about money. We talk, get to know each other and when the time comes to get intimate we fuck like animals and at the end I leave what I feel is appropriate. Sometimes I get a message from a girl saying she wants more the next time, a different girl might send me a note thanking me for being so generous even though I always leave the same amount.

2) There are no time limits. I usually end up seeing a girl for 3-4 hours at a time with up to 4 or 5 bells during that time period. Sometimes we will break and get lunch/dinner and come back for more.

3) There are no "rules" that a provider might have like no kissing, no DATY, no greek, etc. When you meet the two of you talk about what you like and if you're not on the same page just move on.

I hobby much less these days because I have a few regular weekly visits with girls I've met on SD sites. My total cash outlay on SD girls is much less than what I would spend on escorts for a equavalent amount of time. But I also spend a great deal of time emailing, talking to and meeting girls that never lead to any naked time together.

What cpi and Read have said is extremely important as well. There is nothing worse than a SB that gets pissed at you for one reason or another. Keep yourself safe and if you have anything to lose keep yourself extra safe.

[JackNapier]

Traveling Man -

I really appreciate your input. You are describing what I think I should be doing, but I have a few quick questions:

1) Which of the Sugardaddy sites work the best?

2) What age range are you in? I am a pretty fit 50. What age of SB can I realistically work with?

3) You mention that you always leave the same amount. What amount is that? (if that's not too personal).

Thanks again for your input!

Jack

[YSD]

Traveling Man---I have the same questions as JackNapier. Your expertise and guidance is much appreciated.

[Hawkeye9]

I am just tickled pink that a thread I started is on page 2.
Never made it past 3 comments, I am getting wiser in my years with topics

Anyways thanks to all the info I have received, alot good opinions.

Maybe a "Dick Brothers" Thread is next on the agenda.