Perhaps a certain someone forgot the details of our actual conversation...

[Monet Violet]

I absolutely love when certain gents on here decide to put words in my mouth, the latest being that I told them to "fuck off and don't come back"... Here's how the event really happened, as taken directly from my google voice (phone number has been changed to "client" to protect the clients personal info):

Client: FYI that was a waste of time and money. You shouldn't be trying to pass her off as an escort. 4:27 PM

Me: Pardon? 4:32 PM

Client: It's one thing to be new, but she made no attempt at all to make it work. Seemed relieved when o decided to just leave. I have no intention of arguing. J 4:37 PM

Client: ust letting you know. 4:37 PM

Me: Ok please do not contact me or any of my ladies again. 4:38 PM

Client: Not a problem. 4:39 PM

Client: I will be sure to mention your amazing customer service in the review 4:43 PM

Me: Well I stand behind my girls. If youre going to act like im misrepresenting them when you were giving them bad vibes in the first place, then I'm going to support them and kindly ask you not to request the services of my agency 5:04 PM

Client: Ok. It's your business. Run it however you want. 5:11 PM

PRIORto him sending the message, Arianna had already explained to me that he made her feel uncomfortable and wasn't actively taking part in the appointment. I also heard her offer to return the money as he opened the door to leave. Let it be known, that I do value those with loyalty to me. I've been best friends with Arianna for several years now and don't take lightly to rude messages about her "being a waste of time and money". Sure, as I come to know clients well, I form a friendship with them as well. If his initial message had been a lot more professional, I would have gladly taken care of him as a client.

[Lexxxy]

Don't you love how that works? I got bashed on another site by someone that is a total weirdo that I had issues with in the past just like other Ladies have as well. He looks just so innocent if you don't know that back story of his crazy possessive controlling history and how angry he gets when you call him out for his actions or refuse to give him anymore personal information of yours and when you refuse to talk about other people's personal information with him.

[Monet Violet]

Ouch! That's the downside to review boards, all it takes is something catty and minor for someone to hold a grudge. And naturally it's just easy for the gents to believe a negative comment or review from another gent on here, making it difficult for a lady to defend herself

[Guest042416]

what does arianna look like?

[Monet Violet]

Trying to avoid this being a "threAD" lol, but to answer the question, here's her ad http://rochester.backpage.com/Female...ics-20/7802453

Her face is blocked out on there for privacy reasons because she's going through a divorce (may post some on here if she lets me). Overall, I'd say about a 7. Very nervous because she's new, but you don't go out and get a puppy and expect it to be trained already!

[Justin Heranus]

monet i have to agree his opening statement was not professional and could have been put in a better way. from what you posted i see no problems from your side. it was handled professionally and business like. not every one is going to click when they first meet. a person can try there best but if the other person don't try then it wont work. a good portion of the times you are putting two complete strangers in a room together to do some thing intament with each other. yes there will be tention and nerves on both sides. its all on how you handle it from there is if it will work or not.
also i do agree about how reviews can hurt a female when the boards ratio is more male dominate. i think providers should be able to post in reviews to tell there side of the story. but being that you can not do that the best way to do it is the way you did here. i wish more would do it and use this tool. other wise all we are left with is one side of the story and nothing else. you will get your wk's and impartial people calling out bs when they see it. but some times that dont happen. being your own boss can be a head ache at times and when you cross over to being a boss of other people. then it can turn into a migraine. you have to deal with the good and bad things for every one. just keep your head up and keep at it. every business has its rough starts but steadies out over time and become easier to manage the head aches. i wish you the best and hope every thing turns out for you. keep up the great work with keeping up on the posts and keeping us well informed so we can see both sides. have a great day and take care

[Franklin4]

Hi Monet,
I saw you a month or so ago, I had a nice time with you,
id like to meet other women through a escort service, with some whom I have seen, do you think thats possible

[Monet Violet]

tsmtogo - definitely the opening statement was what turned me off to him. Saying that about my friend makes me think like what does he say about me behind my back? Had he said "hey I didn't exactly get the ultra fun time I was expecting, is there any way you could help me out?" would have taken things to a much better solution

Franklin- Definitely! We'll be moving into a fabulous luxury apartment soon and it's got a nice shower... and jacuzzi tub

[jackfengshui]

Monet, since the hobbyist's complaint was not made in a review, but in an open thread (http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...6&postcount=21), you could have responded there. In any case, it helps us to know your side of the story.

[Monet Violet]

I wanted to avoid going off topic in that thread (after all, it was about a gent looking for his first lady)

[Justin Heranus]

monet that is very true. some times using some tack and respect can get you a long ways instead of being rude from the start. hopefully the person learns some thing from this or at least posts. there could always be a chance of a misunderstanding or maybe emotions got the better of him and when he sent txt he might been talking while being upset. who knows maybe some things can be mended or resolved with a good open conversation. as long as it stay in the civil terms and not to take shots. guess we will see.

do you have a site for your business? do you have a few working for your agency?

[Justin Heranus]

Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Monet, since the hobbyist's complaint was not made in a review, but in an open thread (http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...6&postcount=21), you could have responded there. In any case, it helps us to know your side of the story.

jack thanks for the link. good to see both sides. i skim the boards from time to time and missed that.

[Franklin4]

WOW, Thankyou Monet, I would love to have a woman bathe me ,
and shower with,

[jackfengshui]

Originally Posted by Monet Violet

I wanted to avoid going off topic in that thread (after all, it was about a gent looking for his first lady)

You are right about that.

IMHO, on the scale of "he said she said" disputes, this one is relatively minor. The discrepancies are in tone rather than in substance. I hope there is room for reconciliation.

[neversoft]

Monet, I'm impressed by your "classy feistiness." IMO, you've handled this well.